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Random_one New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 2:53 pm Post subject: girl from high school or past life that you havent talked to |
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how do i initiate the conversation?
should i neg her? or should i just say hey? im confuzzled friends...
what should i do???
this is on facebook btw
WHAT SHOULD I SAY LOL
thanks
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JSmooth PUA Forum Leader
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 6:46 pm Post subject: |
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I would open with an email or message about a time that she did something funny that was a DLV (Demonstration of Lower Value). That way you DHV yourself and it gives a neg. For example:
Hey xxxx,
I was just thinking the other day about that time that you laughed so hard you spilled beer all over yourself, and you smelled like beer the rest of the night. Those were good times! So how have you been?......
Hope this example helps, let me know how it goes. |
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Random_one New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 8:17 pm Post subject: |
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thats definetly good advice! but i never chilled with her before...
so i never had those times with her
damn ex sucked up my 17-20 years... god damn i hate that bitch
anything else i can use?
thanks
Random_one
oh and what if she has a boyfriend?
you are damn smooth by the way! |
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JSmooth PUA Forum Leader
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 11:29 pm Post subject: |
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I know I'm damn smooth! That's why the call me J-Smooth my man. Okay, enough of the DHV bullshit and time to get down to business. So you didn't hang out because of your damn ex. Okay so in this scenario, here is what I would say.
"I was thinking about High School the other day for some reason, and I remember you were such a geek back then, good thing you grew up! Anyways, how have you been doing? Is your mom still dressing you, lol !"
Just have fun with it, use smilies and stuff to show you are being playful. Keep some negs in there. If she doesn't mention a boyfriend don't worry about it, trust me on this.
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Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2007 11:43 pm Post subject: |
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| jsmooth37076 wrote: | Is your mom still dressing you, lol !" |
that's a great line, I sure hope her mother is still alive and well though. |
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