Ok, so a lot of times when I'm at the club I'll get inside my head and start thinking instead of approaching.
Now, I've never really told anyone this, so don't laugh at me - but I totally use the Ghostbuster's approach to overcome my self deprivation

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Ok, so do you remember when the gatekeeper told the Ghostbusters that the first thing they think of will be they're distruction?
So the Ghostbusters have to completely clear their thoughts. (until the doughboy reeks havoc)
So that's EXACTLY what I do! I clear my mind like a ghostbuster, and then approach and open my mouth. Open some easy sets with this and then move onto the hb 7,8,9,10's (I personally don't date 10's anymore).
Go get what you want!
best,
Dolf md