Getting past the cringe factor

Ace Rimmer · Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 5:09 am Post subject: Getting past the cringe factor

Having perused the forums for the past few days, i've been given insight into how different people do things as a PUA.

Some posters have impressed me, others have left me cringing my face off.

I'll say this right now, so as not to confuse my intent. Those who only do this to get laid and manipulate women for selfish reasons, you should consider the thought that you're actually fucking clownshoes. I envisage PUAing as something to better yourself with in all areas, to become that Alpha Male, not to manipulate women into bed for the sake of bragging rights or ego.

That alpha male designation is what i strive for most, and to better myself as a person. That ideal means much more to me than seducing women, although i admit i'm not averse to that part of the PUA. Wink

JMart · Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 5:15 am Post subject:

respect

agreed.

L.A. Tripp · Guest

Good that you've caught that. That's called Social Dynamics in a nutshell, and those of us that are the most serious, that's what we are doing here. Picking up women is just a natural part of that.

TrojanMan88 · Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 11:27 am Post subject:

Lol, being a pua is who you are, not what you do. I embody all the characteristics of pua, so girls gravitate towards me...so I guess i'm not sleazy at all because i'm such a pua that every girl is throwing themselves at me...

DTM

Ka · Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:03 pm Post subject:

I was actually here for punch and pie...but aparently they ran out Wink

No seriously though, the people who are here and the most active are here for those reasons (the right ones). Picking up women is actually a small part of being a PUA...so much so that im trying to come up with a better term/acronym for it when i decide to start really openly telling people thats what i am.

To this point im stuck on just telling people i study social dynamics...but i want something with a little more bang.

BTW welcome to the forums.

Yillan · Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 3:38 am Post subject:

Ace Rimmer · Posted: Wed Jan 09, 2008 6:59 pm Post subject:

It's interesting you metion Social Dynamics, as i think it's the crux of pick up. Once i've learned a few things about it, no doubt i can use my natural charm to devastating effect. Smile

L.A. Tripp · Guest

Rye Lee

TrojanMan88 · Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2008 1:48 am Post subject:

bro I think this is one of those moments where you don't worry about anyone else but yourself, don''t care what other people are doing in the field...If you don't like girls being disrespected be glad that your the only guy out there thats not doing it.... Idea

Hobbit · Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2008 1:53 am Post subject:

I completely agree with you. The mindset of many PUA's are very puerile in the fact that they think getting laid is their ultimate goal in life. Inner game is ultimately where it is at.

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