I'm dating this girl and in a few days she'll come to my place. Guess what I'll try to do there... Anyway, last time we were alone at her house we were making out naked in her bed when suddently she stooped and said firmly "we are not gonna have sex today". Now, this was the first time a girl did something like this to me and i was really surprised of her action (she looked kinda scary actually in that moment). We ended up by just fingering & hj.
Now here is the question: how would you guys react to this? How would you get over this LMR?
LMRs are my sticking point and even if now i'm starting to figure out how to usually solve this kind of situations I have no idea how to answer this time.

happened to me once, the first time she did that i was like ok, this is only our second date, its fine, totally normal.
she slept in the same bed as i and nothing but kissing and touching each other. then i saw her again and she came again to my house and slept besides me and did not wanted to have sex.

i just dumped her and a week later i had a different girl in bed with me.. and we did have sex.

The point of the story is if she truly doesnt wanna have sex, and you do, your relationship is not going to work so cut it short.

but the best way to kill lmr if for her to trust that you actually like her. HER, not her body, not her personality, but her as a person. You have to show this by being confortable arround her and by showing it verbaly and physically. like hugh her qith actual care while you are kissing her, tell her she looks nice (dont overdo this one. tell her her dress looks good on her or her hair looks good and thats it, dont keep telling her she's beautiful or you will look like a pervert) etc.

and the other technique you could use is the freeze. if she shows lmr, say ok, and get your pants on and leave the room. wait for her to come to you and let her seduce you, repeat if necesary.

i've never used that technique successfully, but Style sais its good. i would not relly on its efectiveness to be honest.

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I knew already about the freeze, but i'm not convinced about it...

Thank you man!