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Sgt.Slice
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 Posted: Tue Nov 20, 2007 9:49 pm Post subject: Gaming a girl who speaks little english |
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My question is... How do you run game on a girl who speaks very little english? Like a European chick.
The reason I'm asking is because I'll be taking a trip to Germany, Switzerland, and Czechoslovakia in April. I read about Mystery getting with a girl in "The Game" who spoke only a few words of english. Do you guys have any tips or stories to share? |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Tue Nov 20, 2007 10:17 pm Post subject: |
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| Mainly, get really good with body language. Beyond that, learn a little of the language of where you're going. Doesn't take much, just know some things. You know, I believe the desire and language of sex is pretty universal. |
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Locke
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haha...one of my first posts was about the same subject.
uhm. if and when they don't understand, don't mumble a response and dont talk louder AT them. Which is what i did. and it doesn't work for some reason. because they still didnt understand. |
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Muse
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| Posted: Wed Nov 21, 2007 12:05 am Post subject: |
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| Locke wrote: | | uhm. if and when they don't understand, don't mumble a response and dont talk louder AT them. Which is what i did. and it doesn't work for some reason. because they still didnt understand. |
Hahaha 
Actually I could really benefit from this thread as well. I'm studying abroad in Italy for 11 weeks come September. I plan on learning some Italian before I go, and I'm already close to fluent in Spanish(which *could* help...maybe...).
My buddy who went to Italy over summer said that the girls have to decide if they like Americans first...then once they do it's a whole different scene there. He says the girls pursue YOU...sounds alot like what we as PUA's make the girls do over here  .
Seems like the job is made easier...because how could they not like an American PUA? haha. But really any further help on this subject would be amazing!
~Muse |
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Sgt.Slice
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I Guess you want to generate a lot of social proof wherever you are, with the people that speak english...and have a translator... or you can have some material already planned out and translate it online before hand and say it when you meet the girl.
This is the best I got. |
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Ka
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Notice 2 very important things about what happened in The Game when Mystery ran this set.
-He lead the men
-He used visuals that she could see to give himself value
Now as someone pointed out visually you could use good body langauge and she will notice this. If you know a trick or two thats good as well.
You would be surprised how many people speak english in euro countries though. It might be impressive if you picked up a translation book and learned to ask, "Do you speak English?" in the language of that country. This way you could determine if they do (not only your target but possible obsticles or other sets). Also notice in the book that they are never completely cut off from being able to communicate, there is always an english speaking person. If noone in that bar spoke english then Mystery and Style probably wouldnt have accomplished anything.
Remember social proof is also a visual, if you lead a set that speaks english, get in real good with them, maybe one of them will translate to her. Even if they dont, she just saw you obviously speaking a foreign language but still fitting in and being leader.
Also if you can get out and have someone with you that speaks the language this could help too. |
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Warrior_Helvetio
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Zurich Lair (for visitors to Zurich, Switzerland and residents living here):
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Anyone living in (or visiting in the future) Zurich, Switzerland is invited to join our English language Yahoo Group, where we discuss the latest sarging theories/techniques and we discuss the unique aspects of sarging in Zurich, Switzerland. We have some very knowledgeable members in our local Lair community.
To join, just go to the following link and follow the sign-up
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worldwidechris
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Sgt.Slice-If the girl is even talking to you and she doesn't speak much english, then that tends to mean she's interested in you. The IOI's to look for in Euro chicks is the same as American...sitting close to you, asking you questions, her grabbing your crotch , etc. One thing I say that works like gold is "You're crazy", in a C+F way. For some reason they respond to that. Again, same stuff works for approaching...walk up confidently, use an opener, grab her crotch , etc. Just talk like it's just another normal conversation and make sure you're not afraid to smile...
Muse-Congrats on studying abroad! It's a fulfilling experience in which you are able to sample, firsthand, the many aspects of life that you will never see in the U.S.! Spanish helps ALOT, since there are a number of similiarities in the languages. I recently went to Espana and got along fine using Italian. If your college is in Florence or Rome, you'll get by just dandy. Just remember the basics and you'll do fine, but if you need any questions answered don't be afraid.
And just in case you guys are wondering, I've got just a wee bit of experience in Europe. I've been living here for over 5 years and am always glad to help out the wayward tourist. Have fun! |
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Xecutioner
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| As previously stated, there are prolly alot of bilingual girls in Europe. Wouldnt it be an easy opener to ask a girl to translate something for you? You can DHV story tell to her about something a local girl said to you earlier (wether it happened or not) and ask her to tell you what it means. Perhaps she can refer a good place to eat or party in which case there is a chance to set up a meeting later on. Wow man, I need to go to Europe, it seems there are alot of outlets for game. |
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NickRicca
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| Xecutioner wrote: | | As previously stated, there are prolly alot of bilingual girls in Europe. Wouldnt it be an easy opener to ask a girl to translate something for you? You can DHV story tell to her about something a local girl said to you earlier (wether it happened or not) and ask her to tell you what it means. Perhaps she can refer a good place to eat or party in which case there is a chance to set up a meeting later on. Wow man, I need to go to Europe, it seems there are alot of outlets for game. |
I like that opener alot..... good thinking.. |
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NoMystery
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| I personally wouldn't worry about it at all. I've been to some places in Europe(im norwegian) and I've never had any problem just speaking english. Hell, my friend had a cousin over from the states and he commented on how well toned our english skills are. So unless the girls living under a rock there really should be no problem at all since all those country have alot of tourists so they are used to speaking english all the time. |
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