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Concord
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 Posted: Tue Aug 25, 2009 10:12 am Post subject: Fun game for developing confidence |
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If you are shy and nervous when it comes to approaching women and you intend to put an end to your lack of confidence, try this fun and simple game that you can play with friends at clubs, bars or just about anywhere.
It's very straightforward, but it works. Say you are with 2 friends (friend1 and friend2), you start by giving friend1 an opening line of your choice and he MUST use it. Friend1 then does the same to friend2, friend2 then does it to you and so on and so forth.
That's it.
However, it is very important to understand that this game is not meant for actually picking up women. It is purely for working on your ability to approach them and to become familiar with the way they respond and behave in general.
With that being said, the opening lines you give each other are essentially meant to be as ridiculous as possible. In other words, you are almost guaranteeing that you will be shot down. For instance, the first line I was ever given to use in this game was "Hi, I just wanted to let you know that I would not fuck you with a stolen dick" and once you agree to play, you have to use the line.
My friends and I used to be quite shy, but we came up with this game at a bar one night and now, we have no problem approaching women. The most valuable thing you will gain from playing this game is that it will get you used to being rejected. I cannot stress how important that is.
You can also spice it up by making it so that the one who provides the line also chooses the girl to use it on or that if for some reason the guy absolutely refuses to use a given line, he must buy a round of shots for everyone.
Play this game enough and you will realize how simple it is to approach women using openers that are actually good. Enjoy! |
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Concord
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| Posted: Tue Aug 25, 2009 10:14 am Post subject: |
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| Also, don't hesitate playing this game with just 2 people (as in, you and a friend). It actually becomes a lot more intense since you will constantly be trying to get back at each other with outrageous opening lines. |
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trebor
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| Posted: Wed Aug 26, 2009 7:22 pm Post subject: |
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Hey that's a good idea. Just need to get some friends who would be willing to do this.  |
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fox_theone
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| Posted: Wed Aug 26, 2009 8:01 pm Post subject: Good idea |
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| Good idea dude but after you get rejected be polite and let them know it's a game whether they want to hear it or not. We're not in the game to freak anyone out and some girls might take these comments seriously. Trust me some of them do. |
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nineteen1919
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| Posted: Wed Aug 26, 2009 10:27 pm Post subject: |
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This sounds like a pretty good exercise.
I used to, and still do, go out with my friend in which he would have me approach girls in the weirdest manner (i.e funny lines). The point of this exercise was for me to get used to rejection and get used to opening people up.
Cheers,
Ninetten |
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TrulyJack
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| Posted: Wed Aug 26, 2009 10:38 pm Post subject: |
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| Gonn try this. Cheers. |
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DontBeFickle
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| Posted: Fri Aug 28, 2009 1:28 am Post subject: |
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| haha this would be fun stuff. i have to agree with fox about saying it was only a game though. you dont want to be the weird guy at the club... |
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GRKiller
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| Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 12:29 am Post subject: |
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I normally hate these games but this sounds pretty useful. You gotta be somewhere that wont hurt your social reputatuion though.
BTW, I've used "I wouldnt fuck you with a stolen dick" when gamming a girl one time, lol. |
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Teriyaki
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| Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 11:38 pm Post subject: |
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| this is good stuff. i'mma have to try this with my wing this week when we hit the club. should b fun and interesting... |
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V3nu
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Excellent idea, especially for beginners and guys with lots of AA, I actually did a similar thing at spanish festival a few weeks ago, we were so bored out of our mid, so we started daring each other to do crazy things like approaching 2 girls and asking them if we could find faGItas anywhere or just approaching with an old school pick up line, we didn't care about the results we were just doing it for fun. But it helps a lot to your overcoming your AA and Social Anxiety, even Brad P. has a list for his student where he tells them to do crazy stuff, like start dancing or singing in front of a bunch of strangers, etc..
The weird thing happeed when we used a pick up like and the girls didn't not reject us then it was a real challenge wtf do you do next haha (it happened like twice and probably cz it was in daytime) it was still very fun
This post is very recommended for beginners 
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Teriyaki
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| Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2009 11:25 pm Post subject: |
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so me and my wing tried this game out. heres the url to the field report for those interested. jus a heads up, its pretty lengthy...
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Jon Paul
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| Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2009 11:58 pm Post subject: |
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haha i played this the other week but it dangerously back fired.
We decided to use this as the opener (regretably) "hi, im amazing, do you wanna sleep with me?"
ended up with my friend wearing a vodka and diet coke for the rest of the night lol  |
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