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kinoescalator
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 Posted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 1:14 am Post subject: From AFC to PUA - My story of Success |
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In October of last year I came across this site, after hearing about the TV show months ago when I was with my X. Seeing some guys be successful at bars and having tons of girls I couldnt understand why i didnt have the luck they did. Sure, I had girlfriend's in the past, but it was usually I would go to bars and not even talk to 1 girl. I put a pic on hotornot.com. I got a 8.6 rating. WTF? I was cute/hot, successful in business, and did lots of fun stuff but why didnt i get girls?
I read up on the site about openers, and ALPHA qualities. One night I went out (while I was on vacation) and just tried it all on a girl at this chinese resturant. She then met up with my later that night and I K closed.
After this i was starting to think, dam....maybe this stuff works. I used it again and again. I crashed and burned a few times, but mostly I would stay in sets for 30 minutes or more. Sometimes I even K closed.
On new years I met a girl, K closed, then F closed a few days later. Not a slutty girl, just your average fun, normal girl. Wow. Is this the life all the guys that are talking to girls have???
In the next month (January) I F closed a few girls and have many girls trying for my attention. It works and has turned my life around. I have incrediable confidence and "style". I still have a long way to go, but I really dont know what I would have been like if i didnt find this site.
My goal isnt to go out and F close every girl possible. My goal is to meet a girl i can love, and enter into a LTR with. What im finding it that now, I have the confidence to get girls attracted to me. I have gotten that confidence from F closing and K closing. Other guys might allready have this, thats why they do so well.
Just wanted to post this for all you newbies wondering if this stuff works. It does, but its more than the material. Its the technique....actually its changing your personality to a more confident, fun, entertaining guy that does it!
One more thing. Remember, they are just girls. I dont care if they are a 10 or a 5, they are just girls. They need us...and its all an act when they try to act too hot for us. Remember that, and you will do much better in sets!
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JSmooth
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Amazing post Kino! You are 100% right when you mention how it's your "inner game" and confidence that girls pick up on more than anything. We started on the site about the same time, and we've both come a long way. You've really progessed well man, and you are one of the guys that is living proof that it works!
CONGRATS!!! 
TO ALL THE NEW GUYS OR AFC'S READING THIS. YOU CAN DO IT TOO, IT'S NOT SOME MAGICAL FORMULA, BUT YOU HAVE TO "WANT" IT.  |
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xTxHxExJxOxKxExRx
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congrats on your success, keep it up and you may even be as good as mystery/style, im learning MM right now though due to popular vote (i know jugglar method, and saw some David D videos) and im gonna work my way to get as far as you got so far
also to all the AFC readers, id say this stuff really does work, i don't know much yet, but i tried some of jugglers stuff and without doubt it worked |
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JackyKernels
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| why dont you tell us newbies what we should do to start off?? how shud we practice at first starting from scratch! how did u first start off?? this will help alot of us! |
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N-Dangerous
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Cool stuff, today is my first day of the style life challenge.
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JSmooth
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| Gamblers wrote: | | why dont you tell us newbies what we should do to start off?? how shud we practice at first starting from scratch! how did u first start off?? this will help alot of us! |
Study! Read what you can about Mystery Method or the Venusian Arts Handbook. It'll give you a good break down as far as the steps from Opening to Sex. Its there that will greatly help you. Essentially where do you start, you have to learn. When you've done that and you mentally know how to open. Find a few openers and go out to the field and use them. |
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kinoescalator
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Couldnt have said it better J. I am still studying, and testing. I still have problems with HB9's+. Anything can be done, but changing the way you have behaved for all those years, is VERY challenging.
But its like this. Do it and you will be happy. Dont do it and you will proboly never find the right girl. You make the choise.
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Ace Rimmer
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It's alright for you matey, you don't work with three hot girls you can't do anything more than n-close with. So i'm going to practice on them, pretty sure the receptionist likes me and it's only my second day!  |
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panito
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| Posted: Wed Feb 06, 2008 12:39 am Post subject: congrats |
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| thatz good stuff... its true they want us just as much we want them, n the hott girl stuff is an act... ive found in like the past few weeks of bein a new comer to this game that all hotties have the most insecurities. |
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HBhitman
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For beginners, Style suggests "small chunking your knowledge". Work on one aspect of the game until you get good and comfortable with it. That's what the masters do, according to one of the greatest.
I.E.
Start with openers until you get good at them. This will do three things.
1. It'll show you, Holy Crap, this stuff is actually working, which will boost your confidence.
2. Ensure that you don't have so much to remember that you screw up, get pissed and give up on the whole damn thing.
3. Slow the game down enough for you to really pay attention to what's working and what's not.
Once you've got openers down, and you've got a few that work well, work on the next thing, building attraction through DHV stories, negs and disqualifiers. |
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minijag
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| This is really cool, we got interested in about the same time, but it seems like you are improving so much faster than me! Boo! Want to give me any pointers? Maybe any sticking points that you had trouble overcoming, PM me i'd appreciate that advice. |
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