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Bigdave
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 Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 12:59 am Post subject: Friend to friend conversation + kino + flirting/sexual |
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innuendo on occasion
do you think this is a good approach to picking up girls assuming one has strong social skills? |
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Locke
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Are you trying to build up sexual tension between yourself and a friend?
First stop and think if you want to possibly ruin the friendship. A lot of people are not mature enough to take a friendship to a sexual level, then return back to a normal friends level.
If you think you can do that, or think she can do that, or if you don't care, or if you think it could possibly blossom into something, then (to answer your question) yes.
Because you are already friends, you are allowed to get away with a shit load of touching and joking.
The only thing you must perfect before you start trying to implement sexual talk into a conversation is the ability to diffuse every situation. To make everything seems light hearted and playful; to explain what you mean, without explaining what you mean. That way she keeps her guard down...then once you are able to do that stuff, move to KINO; play wrestle, put your arm behind her (but not around). Haha, throw in a "youve got something on your face" and lick your finger and help her out.
Iono, thats what I would do. |
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Bigdave
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the problem I have with PUA is that it goes into depth teaching people what they do already with their friends (with the exception of kino)
but shit like sarcasm, making fun of each other, teasing each other, push/pull etc... most people do that naturally with their friends
the problems arise when guys start treating girls special (IE putting them on a pedestal)
so in reality, the approach "be yourself" works assuming one is socially strong (has good social skills).
This is what PUA does not preach enough... |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 3:01 am Post subject: Re: Friend to friend conversation + kino + flirting/sexual |
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| Bigdave wrote: | innuendo on occasion
do you think this is a good approach to picking up girls assuming one has strong social skills? |
Yes. Innuendo is fine if you can bring it across well. There's nothing wrong with talking sexually with a girl, especially if she's interested. It shows you're not afraid of your sexuality. |
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