Mordl
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 Posted: Sun Feb 03, 2008 8:22 pm Post subject: Friend of mine: too nice? |
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So I have a friend that I've known since elementary school. He's average height, like 5'9" or so, very well-built (went to a military institute), and overall fairly good-looking.
His inner game is great; he is always very confident in himself, never see him pass up talking to a HB, and has always had a lot of girls in his life.
However, he is certainly no PUA, and only recently did I reveal to him the PUA community as well as various books, like The Game, and he immediately became interested. I'm posting here to see if I can get some answers from experts to help him out. My honest opinion is that he seems to be getting into the LJBF zone too often, but let me explain the situation and see what you guys think.
In the past week or two he has essentially "picked up" about 3 different girls, but hasn't f-closed any of them, and I think he only kiss-closed one. One he met at the club where after dancing with her, they exchanged numbers. Another he talked to at the pool (he works as a lifeguard) and later exchanged phone numbers, and later he went on an instant date with her... at the pool, after he finished working. The other one he has already known for a while but didn't start talking to her until recently.
The last HB described has been texting him constantly the last few days and it went from "hey, i really miss you" early in one day to "i can't wait to fuck you" etc. later in that same day. That was almost a week ago and he still hasn't f-closed her. The girl texts him 95% of the time, and when she occasionally calls him, he tries to get her to come out, but something always magically gets in the way of her coming out.
The other two HB's seem to be doing the same thing. They'll call him before he even calls them, but when they call it seems that they aren't planning on doing anything except saying hi. And when my friend tries to get them to come out they always have an excuse for not being able to.
The reason why I think he gets stuck in the LJBF zone is because he is a really nice guy. However, unlike a lot of guys who get stuck in LJBF zone, he actually does get sexual with the HB's. But when I hear him talking on the phone with them, he always makes it really long, lets the girl talk about what SHE is doing at the moment, gives her compliments here and there, and when he tries to get one of them to come out it's always like "yea, if you're not doing anything, would you maybe wanna come out? or not, whatever you want..."
I've tried helping him out a little bit, but I'm certainly no pro, so if you guys have any good advice I, and my friend, would appreciate it. Thanks. |
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