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Stringzoo
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ok there a girl at work i kinda half known for a while im confident to be touch her but up to now its been friendly kinda gestures like a massage or something.
How do i test the water cos if i get it wrong and try hit on her no success i have to work with her.
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Cipher
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| Don't do it. There are milions of other girls that will cause no trouble and will go to bed with you faster. |
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Stealth7
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| Posted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 5:15 am Post subject: |
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| That's calling for Sexual Harrassment on the job. I would advise not to attempt gaming her. Trust me it's not worth it! |
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g00-it
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Yea sounds like it would best to avoid this one, stay friendly maybe get her to introduce you to her mates or something 
Anyway outside of the world of work does anyone have any advice on this kind of situation? I mean say theres a girl you would be interested in, that your kind of friendly with already but hardly way out in the friend zone! |
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jarhead
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| if you're already friendly with a girl and still out of the friend zone it should be fairly easy. kino is going to be key to let her know you're more interested in her. touch her casually whenever you get the chance. it shouldn't be unwanted or uncomfortable touching either...gotta be smooth. its a good sign when she starts touching you back. always seems to work for me in this situation. good luck |
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mike1234
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yea, i dont know if i agree to avoid it...maybe be careful about doing too much ON THE JOB, but invite her to do something interesting with you. And then when youre out with her, you can start touching her more and more. Thats definitely one of the biggest keys.
You can also try to steer the conversation towards love, relationships, and even sex. That will get her mind thinking about those things, and since she's talking about them to you, she will automatically think about YOU in a more intimate way. If you have a hard time bringing those things up, just ask her "so whats the longest relationship you've had," and then after that you can say "what do you look for in a guy." Her answers can help tell you what kind of girl she is, and besides giving You information, just having her talk about it will make her think of you in a more intimate way. |
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horton
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| Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 7:11 am Post subject: |
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| I would avoid this. It's not worth the hassle |
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aballa
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| Totally agree...sarging can be done in the workplace but it's very tricky let it go |
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Reecobah
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| Stay away from this... tell you from my own mistake. If you gonna work with her for quite some time, there is a big chance either of you will find someone else. Then your work will be the last place you wanna be at. |
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HotIce
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Don't sarge in the workplace until you're a master. Even if she's TOTALLY hot.
Get this, my MANAGER is hot. How's that for a dangerous sarge?
I know a guy who's a natural, and he only gamed a co-worker once (and only when it was obvious that she was on her way out, i.e. management was seriously considering firing her). He advised me to never try it, or at least only do it gradually so all that harassment shit doesn't happen.
LOL, sometimes I get pissed off how our society is so feminist. Other countries have an easier time with this, in the West we had to invent PUA to get past bitch shields and paranoid defensive women, but it doesn't solve every situation. |
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The Omega Man
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| HotIce wrote: | Don't sarge in the workplace until you're a master. Even if she's TOTALLY hot.
Get this, my MANAGER is hot. How's that for a dangerous sarge? |
That first statement... it's gotta be worth a go if that's the case?
As for the second one, that would be living the dream would it not?
You gotta live life a bit like that Eagles song, you know, take it to the limit one more time....  |
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