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lucid dreams
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 Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 12:21 pm Post subject: FREEZING UP IN A CLUB |
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| went out on friday and had a relatively good time but when approaching women all the game knowledge id accumulated seemed to miraculously dissapear as soon as i opened my mouth to speak to hb 8 and above any advice for how to cement the teaches and how not to panic before approaching? |
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zecks33
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| Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 2:07 pm Post subject: Re: FREEZING UP IN A CLUB |
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| lucid dreams wrote: | | went out on friday and had a relatively good time but when approaching women all the game knowledge id accumulated seemed to miraculously dissapear as soon as i opened my mouth to speak to hb 8 and above any advice for how to cement the teaches and how not to panic before approaching? |
Okay, I'm only a nub to this as well BUT a work mate of mine is a bit of a gun and he said the way he started was he went for lower chicks to begin with, like 5/6/7's then once he had his game down with them he moved on up to the 8/9's. I'm gonna start to do that as well (though I dont like lowering my standards, we all have to start somewhere). |
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Krylon
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| It's a little hard getting over AA at first. Confidence is key, remember... YOU ARE THE SHIT. Believe that and it will radiate off of you. |
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SirBonksAlot
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The 3-seconds rule, USE IT! That way you won’t even have time for fear or anxiety to kick in. Who care if you fuck up too! You must let go of the need to make everything perfect. You will learn something new from every set and improve. There are no failures, only learning lessons.
…if you still have fear, use that as well. Fear is energy in disguise. It provides us with a jolt of natural energy that we can either ignore and lose, or grab hold of and ride it like a wild tiger… it’s your chose bud.
…one last thing, don’t get caught up in beauty. Learn to judge women based off CHARACTER. Make sure they know that as well. “If you can’t make it, fake it.” Show them through stories or whatever how you ended a relationship with a stipper or actress because she didn’t step up to your standards. Like Krylon said, you really are THE SHIT… now show it. |
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Rulo
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having an opener ready to use has worked for me, Ialso force myself to open a few times then I'm in mood and it gets much easier.
I feel more confident if I'm wearing something unique, I ask for their opinion on it and go into a routine.
Sometimes I learn a magic trick or something and ask them to be mypublic, they never refuse. I think that if you are having fun and you share the source of the funny thing (confusing?) they'll let you.
Once you are in a set it's much easier to open a set that's nearby.
I hope it's helped. |
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Chase
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If you want to gain some confidence and boost your self esteem watch this before you sarge.
I am Chase so I use Chase, but for you obviously you want to change that..instead put your name after the "/" and before the "." and your name will appear.
Its fun and boost your confidence if you ever feel it going down
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so for example you want lucid dreams it is since it is two words
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check out [link] for others and customize your own and post em up here to see if youve created a good one |
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lucid dreams
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| Thanks for all the advice everyone im definetly gonna take all your advice on board and hopefully become a better seductionist in the process |
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Impact
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| Bro just keep meeting chicks, have a safe zone to go back to, like a bunch of friends.. We all know what its like, your not alone, and it happens all the time. Its hard, but keep going! |
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Dex
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Yeah, Nike says it best: Just Do It.
The hardest part is getting over the fear of rejection... It's gonna happen.. just make sure you own it and don't let it own you.
Love that You are mighty link btw. Makes me want to kick ass! 
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SirBonks alot and Krylon say it very well read their replies. Now...my own 2 cents...when I have AA I usually have the following internal dialogue with myself. "I can't do it" followed by " you are a fucking puss if you don't go open her right now" Believe it or not for MY personal psychology speaking this way to myself is just what I need. Kind of like when Marty McFly hears the word "chicken" and just can't seem to let it go.
Finally stop thinking of opening as something you do with HBs. Start opening everyone and I mean everyone. Open your mailman the lady at the cleaners. A senior citizen. Just get into the habit of making friends of strangers. Who knows maybe the senior citizen will introduce you to his hot grandaughter or the lady at the cleaners dances salsa and knows this place where it's hot! If you open everyone then HB10s are just part of the group called everyone.
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