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future15 Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 8:44 pm Post subject: Freeze-out |
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| This hb8 that i finally # closed on Friday has been giving me fewer iois everyday.I think that I may have been texting her too much when I should have called her.I still havent called her yet,and i'm trying to decide if its even worth it from here.I might just say what the hell and try anyways and if i fail,its just practice for another time.I froze her out today and didn't even acknowledge her,and I probably wont text her tonight.What should I do? |
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smudge Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Wed Jan 16, 2008 9:01 pm Post subject: |
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make her wait till 2morro but sounding nicely on form! |
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future15 Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 3:02 am Post subject: |
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| Cool.I didn't text her or even talk to her today.I'll talk to her at school tomorrow,but I don't know if I should text her or call her tomorrow. |
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elkid27 PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 5:13 am Post subject: |
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| Call her, if anythign work on your phone game. Even if it falls through get some practice off if you can. |
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Echo New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Thu Jan 17, 2008 10:49 pm Post subject: |
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| Texting can be good, but overdoing it sends a signal that you are too passive-aggressive. I think it's good to text here and there - short and to the point - but I think it's important to work on the phone game because it shows you aren't afraid to be direct. |
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DTM PUA Forum Addict
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Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 8:17 pm Post subject: |
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| i hate it when people text. it shows lack of balls imo |
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Brandonjg Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 12:36 am Post subject: |
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| text is just a way hide behind your text screen, although its an assett at times, but just call her, thats why u got the # |
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Ish New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 12:38 am Post subject: |
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| I would only text with the purpose to follow into a phone conversation. Tet her "how was your weekend" Then ask her when shell be around and a good time to call. Use commands. You are in control playa |
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 1:20 am Post subject: |
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| i only use text for occasional flirting or just a message that lets her know ur thinking about her. chicks dig that, but of course you dont do this until later in the game (after attraction and comfort). |
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future15 Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Sat Jan 19, 2008 4:55 pm Post subject: |
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| I texted her last week,and I found out yesterday that she was showing her friends the messages that I sent her.I was just being c/f and she thinks that I want her and she probably thinks that Im needy now.She doesn't really respond to my texts that much anymore,but she still tries to get my attention when I talk to my friends around her.I probably wouldn't date her now seeing as how she keeps all my messages and shows them to everybody but I would definently nail her still.What can I do from here? |
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rusty928 New to PUA Forum
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Posted: Tue Jan 22, 2008 1:15 pm Post subject: for future reference... |
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| if you're going to see her the next day...do nothing. For me, if I'm going to see a woman the next day, and I text her the day before...it usually ends up saying something typical like, "I'll see you tomorrow," or "I'm looking forward to tomorrow." If you do nothing until the next day when you see her, it gives you a great opportunity to bust on her. "Hey look, just because I don't call or text you, doesn't mean you have to ignore me." Said with a wink and a smile, you'll probably get a laugh or hit. This has led to a lot of flirting with me and an ex. |
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future15 Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 3:18 am Post subject: |
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| I now know what I was doing wrong.I was making her the prize by constantly texting her.I realized that and the fact that she was being a bitch to me,so I cussed her out on a text message ono Saturday.I haven't texted her since,because I don't really like her anymore,but I still want to fuck her because she is a hb8.She acts like she doesn't like me,but that doesn't really bother me.I want to know what I can do from here to build attraction with her and end up f-closing her. |
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Nex PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:25 am Post subject: |
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| If you're going to text, don't say "hi how ya doin". A good text-neg will have her calling you. |
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Nex PUA Forum Enthusiast
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Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 1:28 am Post subject: |
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| future15 wrote: | | I now know what I was doing wrong.I was making her the prize by constantly texting her.I realized that and the fact that she was being a bitch to me,so I cussed her out on a text message ono Saturday.I haven't texted her since,because I don't really like her anymore,but I still want to fuck her because she is a hb8.She acts like she doesn't like me,but that doesn't really bother me.I want to know what I can do from here to build attraction with her and end up f-closing her. |
That will teach me to read the whole fucking thing before I respond. Hmm.
Well if you've pissed her off and she doesn't like you, the only way I can think to get her attracted to you would be to devalue her by hitting on her friends. Problem is that if she really hates you her friends probably know about your nasty text message. But if you can think of a way, that's the route I'd go. I'm not in this kind of situation much so maybe someone else has better advice.
good luck! |
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future15 Member of PUA Forum
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Posted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 3:55 am Post subject: |
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| The funniest thing happened to me today.I was walking to class and I say her and pretended not to see her,and then she came over and started talking to me.She saw me eating and asked me for some food.I said no and then she said"I'll suck your dick in class for something."I knew what she was trying to do so I said "I'll pass,but thanks for the offer."She then asked me if I hated her and when I didn't answer her,she started trying to push me.So then I just laughed it off and kept walking and she tried to stop in the middle of the hallway with her ass out so I would run into it,and I did because she caught me off guard.The friends she hangs out with during this time(before 4th period)like me because I'm always acting cocky/funny around them.One's a guy the other is a girl,so I don't have aproblem with that.I know I could get her to like me but I'm always being c/f and trying to get her to laugh,or trying to push,but I don't know how to pull(build attraction with her). |
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