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stinglika
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 Posted: Sat Jan 27, 2007 2:35 am Post subject: First text message - |
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Okay u met her 2 nights ago shes keen for a date you kiss closed then she asked u to come outside cause her friend was going to be sick and you played the mouse string to an extent n said gota find my mates and sed but u go ahead and help ur friend she was tearing that she had to pick the drunk friend ova u and u hav a level of power ova her its now time to msg u got her number u wudnt giv her urs part of the power play
whats your first up msg....? |
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Muse
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Well I myself prefer to call that number as first contact rather than text message. It's better to hear a voice than read a text, besides without tone of voice and etc. a text can be read a number of different ways. Perhaps not as you intended it originally. If she doesn't pick up I would say something like: "Hey HB, it's Muse." I'd leave a reminder of something fun the two of us connected on that night I met her and tell her I'm going to do (insert fun activity here) and that she should come along. I'd tell her to call me back and then I'd say goodbye. I don't like to dick around when it comes to the phone, I save good conversation for when we're in person so I have a much smaller chance of having a moment where I blank out and there's nothing to say.
My two cents,
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bricool5
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| Posted: Sat Jan 27, 2007 5:34 pm Post subject: |
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| do not text message her! Call her! |
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MindFucker
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pf. i write to girls and it is as good as call, except she cannot hear your voice, but in the fact she heared it when you were approaching her  |
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Methuselah
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| Posted: Sun Jan 28, 2007 12:44 am Post subject: |
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| don't message bro |
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M
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| Posted: Sun Jan 28, 2007 2:47 am Post subject: |
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Hey Sting,
No matter what you text, I would make sure it leads to some story with a DHV in it. In the early phases, DHV's are so important.
And please don't lose heart with text messaging or even phone calls for that matter. Sadly, some girls just do that to string guys along for the attention. Like Mystery said, a phone close is not a close. The only close is sex.
Respectfully,
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lnacid
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i think you can message, it depends on the girl.. but its harder to make feel her comfort with a text message..
but when i picked-up my ex-girlfriedn i wrote a sms and in answer of that i received a kiss |
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Fierce
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| use common sense |
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