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Guess
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 Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2007 5:07 am Post subject: First nights of sarging |
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Ok so I targeted this hb 8.5. Didn't wait too long to approached her and a couple of her friends. I came up like I had just got off the the phone and I said "hey guys, I need an opinion". Off the bat she threw a pick up artist comment at me. "I acted like I didn't know what she was talking about and went on with my question. How long does my friend need to wait till he can approach her friend".
She responded well and seemed interested in the question and was touching me and play hitting me the whole time. I started to lose the frame, lost her attention and couldn't get out smooth. Through the conversation her friend said something about her boyfriend blah blah.. but before I ejected she told me where she worked and said she worked Sat. brunch. I saw her boyfriend and they didn't spend anytime together at the bar.
Any opinions on this sarge and if she is worth persuing. Thanks |
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raycasanova
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| Posted: Tue Nov 06, 2007 8:48 am Post subject: |
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Just treat it as a shit test and pay no attention to it, in fact I think you did pretty good with just shrugging it off.
For next time, I suggest using an observational opener (pretty much a situational) assuming it's a cold approach and she doesn't see you coming you can think of something witty to open with. If you've already met eyes and you're still an AFC you may want to MAKE some funny openers before going out. I think it's better than canned material, just be sure that it won't make you crash and burn from the start. Look at canned material that works and evaluate what makes it work and go with that mentality when creating something. I'm not saying restrict your mind from experimenting, but you get what I mean.
And if you crash and burn, who cares?
You're still working on getting over approach anxiety, and every approach is a learning experience so don't sweat it.
The worst that can happen is you go back to the drawing board and draw up a better plan, which you would have ended up doing anyway durig your debrief at the end of the night. |
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fortunehooks
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| Man you did a good job, but I think if you are not going to BF destroy, you should leave this 8.5 alone. Personally, there will be more 8.5s so don't sweat it. |
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