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Mike D
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 Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 3:18 pm Post subject: first night sarging help |
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Hey ppls,
Tonight was my first night of sarging and it was pretty cool. My main goal was to just open sets and say hello.
Me and a mate went to a jazz club thats always full of women.
The first set was pretty easy. Three girls who were taking photos. I asked if they wanted me to take a pic of all of them and I was in. We had interesting conversation and neg'd after an IOI. It worked. I then popped some cheesy lines (you girls come here often) and they hung me for it in a fun way. It was lots of fun and it was pure confidence that got me through.
The second lot was not so good. I got two IOI's and just went in with a 'hi' and then 'enjoying your night' which was lame. They where interested and I then asked them what they where drinking which was good. They kept IOIing me and my mate after we let them go. They started flicking water at us from behind and pissing us off (they were ugly chicks).
The last one was a camera man again, but they where so hot I couldnt continue.
So obviously I need work. I need prepared lines to keep things going. Im thinking of using the cube but unsure of its success rate. Im keen to do the boyfriend photo thing like in THE GAME but unsure of its success.
all in all Im happy with tonight.
Im really keen for your feedback and assistance. Maybe conversational ideas and stuff. Thanks. |
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deadman
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| Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 8:09 am Post subject: Re: first night sarging help |
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| Mike D wrote: | Hey ppls,
Tonight was my first night of sarging and it was pretty cool. My main goal was to just open sets and say hello.
Me and a mate went to a jazz club thats always full of women.
The first set was pretty easy. Three girls who were taking photos. I asked if they wanted me to take a pic of all of them and I was in. We had interesting conversation and neg'd after an IOI. It worked. I then popped some cheesy lines (you girls come here often) and they hung me for it in a fun way. It was lots of fun and it was pure confidence that got me through.
The second lot was not so good. I got two IOI's and just went in with a 'hi' and then 'enjoying your night' which was lame. They where interested and I then asked them what they where drinking which was good. They kept IOIing me and my mate after we let them go. They started flicking water at us from behind and pissing us off (they were ugly chicks).
The last one was a camera man again, but they where so hot I couldnt continue.
So obviously I need work. I need prepared lines to keep things going. Im thinking of using the cube but unsure of its success rate. Im keen to do the boyfriend photo thing like in THE GAME but unsure of its success.
all in all Im happy with tonight.
Im really keen for your feedback and assistance. Maybe conversational
ideas and stuff. Thanks. |
hey dude...good work.
offering to take pics of them is a bit lame, if u see them taking pics just go and get in the pic yrself, or do rabbits ears when they wanna take the pic. if u wanna take their pic, get the camera and start taking yr own pic with it (assuming its digi), tell them how u knew they wanted ya pic anyway blah blah blah.
the cube is better for later on, not an opener, and i don't think in clubs. use it when u isolate yr target.
yr lines are a bit lame, but u know that. it doesn't matter tho, wots important is dat u went up and ran game. rather than asking "do you come here often?'. u could say: "u look like the kinda chick that comes to a place like this every night....am i right?" or "are u friendly?" get them to qualify themselves. if they r obviously young, ask how many children they have....ya gotta bust their balls a bit.
don't be to focussed on lkines and openers tho...just try to be natural
you seem to be starting out well tho, be more focussed on opening up sets than getting number closes at this stage.
good luck dude
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Hot Chocolate
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I totally echo the last post I would say take a look at thundercats PDF on openers but once you have got the opener sorted you really need to use open questions - Open questions start with why what where when how I.E
How do you girls know each other - the other thing with openers is you need to root it - there has to be a reason why your asking the question otherwise it looks like your conducting an interview or your a weirdo so think up a funny story to go with the opener it breaks the ice then ask a why what where when how question and go from there.
hope that helps
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Mike D
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thanks fellas,
Yeah busting their balls is good. In retrospect, I was just working on being friendly and working on openers and talking and stuff.
I dont know if i can pull off cocky, although I may give it a try.
Although im in a positive and confident frame of mind I'm still hesitant to get in there. Especially the number tens.
I'm off to the same joint this saturday. I'll take on board what you said and report back.
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Warden
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Hello Mike D,
Just to add, the cube is GOLDEN imo. I've done it probably 15-20 times so far and its always a hit, and a huge DHV. To read someone so deeply shows connection, which attracts women. Remember, you also don't want to be doing this for anyone, make them work for it and make sure you have a couple other DHV's up your sleeve because you don't wanna be the one hit wonder that everyone loses interest in 5 minutes after.
Cheers,
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Mike D
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Some nights, I should just stay in.
After a wardrobe malfunction (I couldnt decide what to fuckn' wear) me and my buddies went bar hopping. They were up for sarging, I was tired and hungry.
To top things off, the last bar had my ex girlfriend and her new beau there. Ba pow, nice work. To say the least I spoke to her, wished her the best and moved on to my mates.
My confidence is still high and I'm smiling at alot of women. I'm not opening sets as much but I'm feeling that I can't push this.
Thanks for your comments guys. They mean alot.
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Mike D
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| The good thing was I went out with this bird for 7 months and she was totally hot but terrible in bed! |
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I would also agree with Deadman about the asking to take the pic.....
If they ask you to take the pic, which most times they will..... Take the camera, get them all together as if to snap it off and then quickly take a pic of your manhood.......... they will love it......... it kills it for me! |
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