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PostPosted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 6:20 pm 
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Hi everybody, my name is UnFazed and I am mid- 20's Asian entering in to a PhD program in the fall. I've spent the last 8 years of my life in upstate New York, and am moving to Colorado for graduate school.

I would consider myself average with girls. My lay count is at 5 currently, and I have had a 4 year long relationship as well as a 5 year long relationship that recently ended (in December 2013). I have been into pickup since January / February 2014, and have been using it as a way to get over the 5 year relationship with HB 8.5 HS. Since then, I've been reading a lot of online material, and have gotten a healthy amount of both day game and night game under my belt. My success fluctuates, as sometimes I am able to hook a set and sometimes I can tell that they lose interest as I try different techniques and different tactics. I have been using mostly natural game, and I feel that my strengths include confidence, conversational ability, ability to read body language (read several books), displaying confident body language, and willingness to try and fail. My weaknesses include lack of a mentor / experienced wingmen, occasional lack of motivation, semi- recurring one-itis with HB 8.5 HS, and lack of pickup experience.

I have a good body (runner / biker / swimmer) and I would consider myself decently good looking. My sticking points right now are in the attraction phase and overall kino. I have been basically spending the last couple months overcoming AA, and have more or less succeeded. Once properly warmed up, I hesitate very little no matter how hot the girl. Since January, I've been going out every weekend Friday and Saturday, and occasionally during the week as well. The first month or so was rough, as AA had its nasty grips on me, but the last few weekends I have opened many sets both during the day (2-5 sets) and during the night (10-20 sets per night). I have been trying both direct, indirect, and indirect into direct game, and I don't think my game is good enough so far to make direct approaches work (I think I've gotten maybe 4 positive responses out of 50 approaches). From now on, I plan on using indirect approaches both during the day and at night. I've also been relying mostly on natural game, and I am planning on incorporating the Jealous Girlfriend opener as well as some DHV routines into my game in the next couple weekends. I had been teasing pretty well a couple weekends ago and had been successful at hooking a couple sets that way, but I really need to make it more of a focus in the attraction phase. Sometimes I just coast into comfortable conversation and forget what I was really there for: to work on my game.

I have been going out with a group of 2-3 other wannabe PUA's, and a lot of times solo as well. I am less motivated solo, because I come up with BS excuses not to approach, but I am working on that. In the last couple months, I've F-closed once, number closed maybe 5-6 times (could have done more but I don't always go for it), gone on a couple day-2's, and have not contacted a couple girls out of lack of attraction. I've also been pursued by a couple girls (inviting me out to eat, etc.) I also went for a street make out within the first 2 minutes on a HB 9 and she turned away, though she was giggling the whole time. Should've gone for the # close, I'm pretty sure would've gotten it.

My goal is to learn and improve my game. I want to get it to the point where I can game and close 9-10's on a regular basis.

One thing that I've had trouble with is kino. I had not been doing much of it int he beginning, and every time I do now feels awkward and not natural. Light touches and kino pings are okay, but the sideways / frontal hugs usually get a more defensive response from the girls. Any advice on this? Should I wait till past the hook point before I escalate the kino to the hug level?

Sticking points-
Consistently hooking the set
Kino
Persistence in plowing even when things aren't going well

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 6:54 pm 
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I am planning on posting all my Field Reports here so you guys can hold me accountable and give me the advice I need to improve. I will be going out tonight (Wednesday), either with a couple buddies or solo, and I will let you all know how it goes.

The last interaction I had was yesterday, but it wasn't a cold approach. I ran into HB 6.5 (super into me) she gives me a big hug and wants to eat dinner together. We go to a dining area on campus, and discuss the last couple weeks, as we hadn't caught up in awhile. It was safe conversation, although it was light and friendly. We laughed a couple times, I could tell she was nervous and trying to keep the conversation going. I wax and waned my attention, occasionally letting my eyes wander, shifting my body language away from her, and checking my phone occasionally. I tried to reward her every time she tried to get my attention (chase cycling) and take my attention away when the conversation dwindled or became boring.

Then HB 6.5 sees HB 9 (Indian girl) and HB 9B (Romanian girl), they say hi, and they sit down and we all talk together. When HB 9 introduces HB 9B as Maria, I jokingly start singing "Maria" from West Side Story. We start talking about hookups. HB 6.5 tells a story. HB 9 tells a story. I do a great job of talking about sexual topics confidently and nonchalantly. HB 9B gives HB 9 shit for using the word "steamy" to describe her hookup. I tease HB 9 for being a hater. "Haters gonna hate". I can't tell if HB 9B is trying hard to appear impressive and confident or not, she is definitely talking loudly and brashly. I say that my last hook-up was to the Disney movie "Frozen" (only slightly true), HB 9B comments that it must've been recently. We talk about Disney porn, of all things. HB 9B makes a comment about "doing the one-handed lonely dance" (aka masturbation). I make sort of an error here, where I found that so funny that I laughed pretty hard and loud. I think I need to dial it back next time and smile and chuckle and give validation that I think it's funny, but not in an over the top way that might be perceived as needy. It's something that I mess up often, as I am naturally a happy guy and often laugh in a big way. I'm striving for more of a cool, confident, chill vibe because that has worked better for me than just being super happy and maybe having my smiles / laughter be perceived as nervousness. HB 6.5 and I get up to leave, and I joke that we're both gonna go do the one handed lonely dance. In retrospect probably shouldn't have made that joke, it doesn't sub communicate any good qualities, but it just came out of my mouth. It was at least good that I was in the zone and not hesitating or overanalyzing my speech. HB 6.5 and I walk to the library, and I have to give a presentation at 7:30 about bicycle touring. HB 6.5 comes to the presentation. Afterwards, at 10:30ish at night, she texts me that she thought the presentation was really cool and that she was really inspired. I don't respond until the next morning, with "Thanks! :)" My ex HB 8.5 HS calls and tells me she's sort of interested in this guy that she runs with (she's 3 hours away going to medical school. I get a wave of AFC feelings and tell her that I probably won't come up to visit. She responds by telling me she wants to get back together with me, blah blah blah. I don't know if I should (she cheated on me and lied for 8 months about it) because I'm moving, it'll be long distance, etc. She tells me she might come up to visit this weekend. I resolve to kill my inner AFC by sarging more. I don't want to supplicate to her or drive up to visit her. DIE AFC DIE! That's part of the reason I was motivated to start this journal and to sarge tonight. Goals for this week: get used to "Style's" jealous GF opener, rooting with a FTC, and consistently hitting the attraction phase hard. The routines I'm going for in the attraction phase if I can't make up a tease on the spot include:

Best Friends Test (night or 2+ sets day)
Fashion police (I came up with this one it goes:
"You seem like a cool / friendly girl. *Pause* I don't know about your outfit, however (with a smile). I might have to call the fashion police")
ESP test (I want to transition to this by going
"You seem like a friendly girl. I wanna ask you, are you spontaneous? (Yes) Do you like having fun? (Yes) Okay I want to try something with you. Okay give me your hands (compliance) …" into ESP test)
AFC Adam's hand eye coordination test (look it up on youTube) - I want to integrate this with girls who are sporty or reveal that they do something active and physical.

I chose these because they are what feel most natural to me. I do want to maybe work on C / U smiles, but I don't quite know the exact execution. Does anyone have a link? Thanks everyone!

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Cool stuff dude. Definitely heading in the right direction.


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Went running in the afternoon and got sweaty.

Before my run I approached an unattractive girl with a seeing eye dog in training. Talked to her about the dog and how I had a dog, had good body language and put off a good chill vibe. She started flicking her hair at me, smiling, and giving IOI's. I ejected, getting a good confidence boost out of it.

On my run saw a fat girl running. I ran over and gave her a high five and told her she was my hero.

After changing, I walked back to my car. Walked past a tall blond HB 6, had the opportunity to open, but had no motivation to. Wasn't AA, just didn't approach cuz I was sweaty, nasty, and wasn't even thinking about sarging. In retrospect, should've opened for the practice.

When I got home, I started feeling shitty and getting one-itis over HB 8.5 HS. Gonna kill my inner chode AFC by heading to the bar downstairs and doing some socializing.

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Bar downstairs on a Wednesday:

Walked in with good body language, the bar had a mixed 6 set at a standing table and 3-4 guys at the bar. I open a guy at the bar, we chat about baseball. He leaves, two guys come in, I open one of them, he's a little bit weird and socially uncallibrated. We talk about mushrooms, of all things (he grows them). A guy and a women walk in, the women orders a drink next to me I make a comment about her accent. She says she's from England and smiles. I go back to the conversation with mushroom guy. This guy can really talk, I stand, occasionally smile, and just present good body language to the rest of the dive bar. He goes to the bathroom, I approach the guy and the England girl (HB 6.5) and chat first with the guy and then with the girl a bit about their graduate programs. It was safe, friendly conversation. I eject after 5 minutes, or so. Mushroom guy re-engages me. I get a call from HB 8.5 HS (ex). She tells me she is planning on coming up this weekend. I say okay. Mushroom guy engages me again. HB 3.5 approaches bar, I open her. Fun back and forth, then she leaves. I go to bathroom, on the way back I open a 2 set HB 5 and HB 4.5 by asking about HB 4.5's tattoos. They dish some sauciness at me ("They're ink pressed into her skin") and I smile but don't immediately return with a witty remark. Right at that moment mushroom guy engages me while I am in set with some more random BS, the two girls go back to talking to each other. I internally lol at myself for getting cockblocked by mushroom guy, fish the story out of the tattoo girl after he leaves, but I had already lost the set. I eject, leave the bar with a smile on my face, and head upstairs back to my room.

Good points:
Approaching and opening! Will continue to work on decreasing lag time. Used a FTC on my opener to the 2 set! Go me!
Being social and friendly and having fun.
Got the AFC feelings and one-itis feelings and shitty feelings out by going out and being social.

Points to work on:
Didn't use prepared openers. This one really shone through, as it definitely would've helped to disarm the 2 set. The tattoo opener probably smelled fishy to them, and Jealous GF would've disarmed them better by being a more harmless opinion opener. Still have only used this one once and need to use it more. I think I rely on natural game a bit too much for opening right now, and using a routine will help me get used to rooting, a FTC, and appearing both spontaneous and harmless.
I've practiced Jealous GF for awhile by myself in my room or while driving or whatever a lot, I need to practice one of those DHV routines solo as well.

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Watched some youTube videos of in field pickups, and decided that my verbal game can use some work. Gonna use on adding value (opinions and statements) into convos instead of taking value (asking questions, forcing her to add value) and just gonna work on teasing whenever possible. That might be what was a little off last weekend.

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Great journal! I like how detailed you are.

From what you write it seems like you are working really hard on your verbal game. How is your kino?

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Crappy, I have been trying to work on it, but it feels awkward and unnatural. I need to make it more natural and nonchalant, and I can feel women getting more uncomfortable when I go in for a hug.

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After a few approaches you'll start to get a better feeling of when exactly you should go in for the hug, exactly when you set the hook, when you should go for just a high five etc. But it's not a bad idea to get a routine down. At one point I had it fairly standard that I'd give a high five for an answer I liked, if she was smiling and playful I'd hold her hand after the high five, if that was all good then I go for a hug the next time she tries to sell herself to me or tries to impress me. And I make it a fun hug. It's not supposed to be a creepy thing where you are moaning to yourself (like a "mmmm" sound). You're better off with an excited "yea" through the hug and chatting through it imo. That way it seems more natural, like your just a touchy feely person. It's not hard to get a hug of course, but you need to make sure it's something that builds more report between yall and doesn't seem awkward.

Quick example (after opener):

PUA:You have a good fashion sense? Love the shoes but it makes everything else on you look kinda bland... I can tell you put some thought into it though, I like that. (say it with a nice smile, you see her returning the smile or blushing AT ALL, then you put your hand up for the high five when you tell her you like it)

Girl: Blah blah blah something about clothes, style, or shoes

PUA: Cool, but are you one of those shallow girls that only has looks to offer? Pretty girls are dime a dozen, what makes you special?

Girl: Blah blah blah something about being honest, nice, having drive etc (if she's attracted at all she will try to sell herself to you and you're probably catching her off guard)

PUA:(while going in for the hug, if she gives a really good answer it's good to cut her off by going in for the hug) "Very cool, I can appreciate that" with a smile and approval in your voice

What I like about this setup...
1. You don't come across as being nervous around a cute girl. You're willing to give her compliments, but also mention small things that just don't impress you that much.

2. Puts her in the frame that she is trying to impress you. You are the interesting guy that is asking her questions and talking to her in ways that other guys just don't.

3. It makes it to where if she doesn't try to sell her self, it's because she's "shallow". So it gives her more incentive to impress you, and therefor make her invest more.

4. It all follows a very natural progression. Doesn't come across as try hard when done right.


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That was solid advice, solid stuff. I will work on incorporating that qualifying frame and using the shallow girl line to set that frame. Will also take your advice on that kino. Thanks for the advice!!! Appreciate it :)

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Unfazed wrote:
Crappy, I have been trying to work on it, but it feels awkward and unnatural. I need to make it more natural and nonchalant, and I can feel women getting more uncomfortable when I go in for a hug.


Here is some good advice.

I usually try to use the back of my hand for touching. Touch the back of my hand against the back of her hand/stomach, or holding her lower back or shoulder to get some early kino starting (advice from Gambler if I'm not mistaken). Going in for the hug should be natural.

Keep looking for IOI's in her movements, in my opinion it's all about psychology. Look for her scratching her hand, arms, face, neck, w/e. I think the most common and easiest to spot IOI is when she plays with her hair or fixes her hair, this is a clear IOI.

Be playful. Ask her something, and if you like the answer be like "aw I love your way of thinking, I totally agree" and go in for a playful hug. _DON'T_ hug like an eagle, I've seen this quite a lot of time. What I mean is that you stretch your arms really wide and high up in the air, almost approaching her like an eagle approaching it's prey. Go in for the lower hug. Make her feel safe.

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ethgrop wrote:
Unfazed wrote:
Crappy, I have been trying to work on it, but it feels awkward and unnatural. I need to make it more natural and nonchalant, and I can feel women getting more uncomfortable when I go in for a hug.


Here is some good advice.

I usually try to use the back of my hand for touching. Touch the back of my hand against the back of her hand/stomach, or holding her lower back or shoulder to get some early kino starting (advice from Gambler if I'm not mistaken). Going in for the hug should be natural.

Keep looking for IOI's in her movements, in my opinion it's all about psychology. Look for her scratching her hand, arms, face, neck, w/e. I think the most common and easiest to spot IOI is when she plays with her hair or fixes her hair, this is a clear IOI.

Be playful. Ask her something, and if you like the answer be like "aw I love your way of thinking, I totally agree" and go in for a playful hug. _DON'T_ hug like an eagle, I've seen this quite a lot of time. What I mean is that you stretch your arms really wide and high up in the air, almost approaching her like an eagle approaching it's prey. Go in for the lower hug. Make her feel safe.

Exactly. First you have to be confident in it. Once you set that up it's easy. But I always approach as if I'm just a fun guy that is flirty and having fun until I have very solid attraction built up.


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Thanks guys, I am playing basketball tonight and going out afterwards around 10 for awhile with a couple of other guys, I will let you know how it goes.

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Thursday night:

Played bball with bros till 9:30. Went home showered, headed out. Call back ex HB 8.5 HS on the walk downtown. She is coming this weekend, still wants to talk about her day, and stuff. I joke around to get into a good state. Finish talking to her, head into the first bar. Met up with my wing CH. We get opened by an older gentleman. Turns out I know her daughter, who is a bartender at the bar under my apt. His other daughter, who I met before, is bartending. I get a water, tease / flirt a little bit. I tell her to do the robot dance move (I met her once before and she did a lot of robot impressions). She complies and I tease her a little bit. She says its better than my robot and I tell her my dancing is too awesome for this club right now. She goes back to bartending, CH, old guy, and I finish chatting. There's a seated two set, I tell CH that I'm gonna go to the bathroom and open them on the way back, and to enter if it seems like it's going well. I open them sort of awkwardly (first set of night) and realize that they look a lot older up close (40's). We exchange pleasantries, they have no clue why I'm approaching them, and I eject and laugh to myself and CH. We go, get pizza, and head to the bar under my apt, DW. Place is dead. We chit chat with bartender and drive up to another more chill bar. We meet the third wing, NP. I tell them that we need to fix our vibe, to ninja scope instead of blatant scope, and to focus on talking and enjoying ourselves. We want to put off a fun, cool, having fun vibe, not a creepy scoping the girls out vibe. We start working on that. NP opens a group of guys. CH and I sit down. A couple sit down next to us, I joke, "Did I tell you guys you could sit there?" A little bit of joking back and forth, then CH and I continue chatting. I teach him about the different types of glances (AFC Adam material). NP comes back, we decide to play some pool. I go up to the bar to get quarters. I open a guy and a girl standing there. His brother attended a school in Hawaii. I say I'm jelly. Girl says, "you mean jealous?" I said something along the lines of, "No, I'm jelly. You see, that's the cool way to say it, so if you want to raise your coolness level above that of dork, you should start saying jelly too." I'm amused, but she doesn't crack a smile. Instead, she asks me, "What do you study?" and starts asking me questions. I think it was an IOI, but she wasn't giving super positive body language. Anyways she wasn't too attractive so whatever. I open a girl sitting at the bar by telling her she looked super bored (she did). She responds it's been a long week or month or whatever. I told her she could tell me one that sucked if it would make her feel better. She declines, and I tell her my theory on how guys and girls deal differently with stress. Girls talk about it with other people, guys do something that takes their minds off of it (video games, sports, etc). She says that that is an incredibly asshole thing to say, which completely caught me by surprise. I was completely unfazed though, I just shrugged my shoulder and opened the guy behind me. We chatted, I got my quarters, and went back. CH and NP were playing against a guy and an Asian girl. I tease Asian girl after she makes a bad shot. There a group of 3 behind me, I end up not opening them. Now I regret it, I should have, no reason not to. I watch their game, joke around, and after it finishes, talk with CH and NP. There's a 2 set seated off to the corner a room away. Should've opened, didn't. We go back near the bar and stand and chat. There's 2-3 more opportunities to open, instead we just stand and chat. Although I didn't feel motivated to open the last couple, and realize afterwards that I should've, I still don't feel bad about it. None of them were super attractive, and I know that in the future, I should just not think about it and open faster. It's okay, can't be in #godmode every night.

Pros:
CH, NP, and I put off a much better vibe (we are here having fun and socializing, not hitting on girls)
Did a great job with body language and teasing, and did a decent job opening.
It was a fun night, had some laughs, and socialized, which is better than masturbating at home.
Even though that girl had a negative reaction to my comment, I'm glad that I just said whatever I wanted to, and her negativity didn't affect me at all.

Cons:
Should've opened more sets.
Lag time still at a decent level.
Wasn't fearless tonight like some other nights where I was on (wasn't totally warmed up)

Goals for the future:
I feel like it's okay not to use the canned openers like I said I was going to. I still feel comfortable enough approaching, and I'm doing a good job with the teasing and the attraction. I should've used Squatting Casanova's seated opener on that seated 2 set, it just didn't occur to me for whatever reason.
Overall, good night, just being aware that on higher density nights (Fri and Sat) I'm gonna want to get in as many sets as possible by opening as many sets as possible and having as little downtime as possible so I need to get started and warm up early. No work on kino :( did have maybe 1-2 opportunities. Have to work on that.

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A productive Friday!

Went on to campus, ate food, went to library to do some work. I enter a room with just one other student, a stunning brunette, HB 9. She smiles at me and I smile back as I sit down. I take my stuff out, she lets out a sigh, and I open with, "You sound stressed out." I proceed to lightly tease and then focus on my work. 10-15 minutes later, she lets out another sigh and I tell her with a smile that if she keeps sighing I'm gonna have to kick her out. We chat about what we are doing, and how it's a Friday. She is from Cincinatti and is a figure skater. I'm starting to get smiles and laughs. I keep doing more work and she is starting to give a lot of passive IOI's (playing with hair, humming to music). My ex HB 8.5 HS calls, and I talk to her in the hallway out of the room for half an hour, HB 9 still inside giving passive IOI's. I walk in and give the impression that I'm about to leave. HB 9 opens me back up. We chat. She struggles to keep the conversation going. This is where I botch it. I steer the conversation towards food. We talk about Chipotle. Instead of making a more solid emotional connection, overselling eating at Chipotle together, and qualifying her more solidly, I just go for a number. I get it, but then instead of staying and solidifying I eject. I text her "Nice meeting you - unfazed". She replied with "you too!" I think I played great attraction game, with a lot of good teases and good body language, but messed up on comfort / rapport, time bridging, and a good number close. I am still gonna pursue with my crappy phone game, but this one will probably flake. Too bad, she was hot.

Pros:
Great attraction game.
Good body language.

Things to work on:
Qualification / comfort / rapport
Kino (seated, so more difficult)
number closing not like an idiot

Afterwards, I go for a 8 mile run, eat dinner, go home and shower, and immediately head downstairs to get warmed up for the night. I stride in to the bar and open a guy. We talk about boring crap. I go over to two blonds that I've met and sarged before, re-open them. They seem to know what I'm up to. Make chit chat, eject. Time to head up to collegetown. I park at CH's place and head to a bar I'll call the House. CH just woke up from a nap and will take some time to get there. I sit at the bar and open a guy sitting next to me. We chat. From there, every guy and girl that approached the bar at that spot I opened (usually with some light, good natured teasing thrown in). Must've been probably 5 guys, 5 girls around that number. CH arrives. He sits down next to me. We chat, laugh, and have a great time. We put off a great, fun vibe, and we are opening everyone that came to our spot (we had a high bar traffic area). Lost count of how many people we opened. One girl came in and I teased her about entering my personal bubble. She was kind of put off. I definitely said it with a smile, and CH jokes that she is put off by how attractive I am. We laugh, she doesn't respond. Later, she comes back to the area, CH jokes, "Uh oh, there she is again!" lol. I open up two girls holding a pizza, get them to give me their pizza. lol. We open up a couple from Chile, set up a foozball challenge for later. We opened two PhD physics guys. We open up a couple of girls with questions about their jewelry. CH and I are doing a great job keeping it light, fun, flirty, and with a bunch of teasing. NP arrives, starts opening random people. CH and I challenge two girls we had opened earlier to foozball. They comply, I tease them ruthlessly the whole time, and they love it. After that, CH tells me to challenge Chile girl and her BF to foozball. I almost pussy out because they were seated and engrossed in conversation, but then I talked myself back into it, went, threw down the challenge, they complied. Chile girl, her bf, and blond HB 8.5 play us. I tease them mercilessly as well. However, they get offended halfway through, say that I'm a dick, and I have to sincerely apologize. We play out the rest of the game in awkward silence. lololololol. After the game, CH talks to Chile girl, I talk to HB 8.5 blonde. We isolate. HB blonde and I are having a great conversation without too much teasing. I am mentally getting ready to bring it to a teasing and kino escalating level when she drops that she and her female partner are doing a long distance relationship. lololololol. We continue our great conversation, and I tell CH and NP later about how I was gonna hit on a lesbian. CH meanwhile sarges Chile girl, completely oblivious to the fact that she had a bf (he left, pissed off). Chile girl actually gets CH's number because she wants to set him up with another Asian girl. lolololol. We split up, I open a couple guys sitting down, then open an older guy near the bar. CH, NP, and I leave and go to the bar Ruls. We sit down and chat, amongst many fratty guys and dressed up girls. The three of us basically just sit and chat. HB 6.5 short (super into me but I wasn't into her) texts me and is coming to Ruls to meet us. We chat some more, she eventually makes it with a guy. I stand up and engage guy. Make him feel like he's the man. HB short is desperately trying to get my attention. I talk with her for a little, and another girl I know HB 5.5 shows up, we do the "omg haven't seen you in awhile" thing. Big social proof. Poor HB short is going crazy. NP opens some people, CH and I head to another bar. They had a weird thing where the downstairs was closed. CH and I head back to the House bar. NP follows later. HB short texts me asking where I am and I tell her. She is going to come as well. We re-enter the House. I open an Asian guy, talk to some more Asian guys. HB outdoorsy that I had opened earlier in the night and had seen my presentation from last week (social proof!) comes and re opens me. I tell her that she is too white to join our Asian posse. I introduce CH to Asians. One of the Asians # closes me, says he wants to invite me to a rager. lol. HB short makes it, trailing two guys. Those three and CH and I sit down and chat. I keep my mouth running, occupy the two guys while CH chats up HB short. He tells me later he is astounded I don't close her because of how into me she is. I tell him I'm just not attracted to her. I walk up to the bathroom, HB 6 blonde spazzy opens me as I walk past her group. I show them some cool high fives and fist bumps. Leave, come back to HB short table. I open a random guy. NP shows up, me, random guy, and NP chat near HB short's table. I get up and walk around, open a group of two guys and two girls (all Indians) playing foozball. They are completely shy and don't respond to me. I tease another group of two girls and guys behind me, they respond well and laugh. Closing time is called. I'm cruising on a social high and want to end the night on a high. HB outdoorsy stops me, I on a whim # close her (on the premise that when she and her friends go out to text me). Not into her at all. Luckily there's a blonde HB 8.5 sitting alone at the bar! BOOM no hesitation opened with "You're sitting here all alone?" First couple minutes were tease, tease, tease, high energy. Then into some fluff and some qualification with periodic teases thrown in. "You're cool! (you're cool too!) Tell me something interesting about yourself." She was on the price is right. lol. HB outdoorsy budges in, I handle it very smoothly. preselection FTW. I time bridge into karaoke sometime this coming week while bringing in good kino. She's kino-ing me back. Playing with her hair. Laughing the whole time at my baus teases and jokes. It's on! I # close her on the premise that we are going to do karaoke during the week. I continue sarging after the # close, and then eject on a high. CH tells me later that NP sarged her and she gave him the boyfriend line. Boom! I end the night feeling like a million bucks. I send her the text "Glad to meet you :) -Unfazed" She sends back "You too Unfazed, enjoy the rest of your night!" I don't respond.

Pros:
#godmode achieved
incredibly social, opened everyone.
fixed my crappy # close with a solid # close
opening with little lag time
used kino with HB 8.5 blonde
huge ego boost from the solid # close, running my mouth all night, and having HB short chase me everywhere
CH is getting a lot better in the conversation and the teasing department.
NP is opening more and getting more comfortable.

Things to improve:
Should've gave her a hug at the end before ejecting.
Could've gone for insta-date, but I was tired. I would guess 50% chance that she would've complied to a late night taco bell thing into cool youtube movie at my place if I had more solid late game.
Could've gone for more kino on her as well as all the rest of the sets that night. I usually don't go for kino until I know she's attracted. I need to use start using light kino before that point.
Want to work on my qualificiation and rapport / comfort game a little bit and want to make that level of # closing more consistent. Hard to be that high energy all the time.

:):):) Great Friday! Happy weekend everybody. Going day sarging tomorrow morning at the Farmer's market with CH and NP. Wish us luck!

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