A productive Friday!
Went on to campus, ate food, went to library to do some work. I enter a room with just one other student, a stunning brunette, HB 9. She smiles at me and I smile back as I sit down. I take my stuff out, she lets out a sigh, and I open with, "You sound stressed out." I proceed to lightly tease and then focus on my work. 10-15 minutes later, she lets out another sigh and I tell her with a smile that if she keeps sighing I'm gonna have to kick her out. We chat about what we are doing, and how it's a Friday. She is from Cincinatti and is a figure skater. I'm starting to get smiles and laughs. I keep doing more work and she is starting to give a lot of passive IOI's (playing with hair, humming to music). My ex HB 8.5 HS calls, and I talk to her in the hallway out of the room for half an hour, HB 9 still inside giving passive IOI's. I walk in and give the impression that I'm about to leave. HB 9 opens me back up. We chat. She struggles to keep the conversation going. This is where I botch it. I steer the conversation towards food. We talk about Chipotle. Instead of making a more solid emotional connection, overselling eating at Chipotle together, and qualifying her more solidly, I just go for a number. I get it, but then instead of staying and solidifying I eject. I text her "Nice meeting you - unfazed". She replied with "you too!" I think I played great attraction game, with a lot of good teases and good body language, but messed up on comfort / rapport, time bridging, and a good number close. I am still gonna pursue with my crappy phone game, but this one will probably flake. Too bad, she was hot.
Great attraction game.
Good body language.
Things to work on:
Qualification / comfort / rapport
Kino (seated, so more difficult)
number closing not like an idiot
Afterwards, I go for a 8 mile run, eat dinner, go home and shower, and immediately head downstairs to get warmed up for the night. I stride in to the bar and open a guy. We talk about boring crap. I go over to two blonds that I've met and sarged before, re-open them. They seem to know what I'm up to. Make chit chat, eject. Time to head up to collegetown. I park at CH's place and head to a bar I'll call the House. CH just woke up from a nap and will take some time to get there. I sit at the bar and open a guy sitting next to me. We chat. From there, every guy and girl that approached the bar at that spot I opened (usually with some light, good natured teasing thrown in). Must've been probably 5 guys, 5 girls around that number. CH arrives. He sits down next to me. We chat, laugh, and have a great time. We put off a great, fun vibe, and we are opening everyone that came to our spot (we had a high bar traffic area). Lost count of how many people we opened. One girl came in and I teased her about entering my personal bubble. She was kind of put off. I definitely said it with a smile, and CH jokes that she is put off by how attractive I am. We laugh, she doesn't respond. Later, she comes back to the area, CH jokes, "Uh oh, there she is again!" lol. I open up two girls holding a pizza, get them to give me their pizza. lol. We open up a couple from Chile, set up a foozball challenge for later. We opened two PhD physics guys. We open up a couple of girls with questions about their jewelry. CH and I are doing a great job keeping it light, fun, flirty, and with a bunch of teasing. NP arrives, starts opening random people. CH and I challenge two girls we had opened earlier to foozball. They comply, I tease them ruthlessly the whole time, and they love it. After that, CH tells me to challenge Chile girl and her BF to foozball. I almost pussy out because they were seated and engrossed in conversation, but then I talked myself back into it, went, threw down the challenge, they complied. Chile girl, her bf, and blond HB 8.5 play us. I tease them mercilessly as well. However, they get offended halfway through, say that I'm a dick, and I have to sincerely apologize. We play out the rest of the game in awkward silence. lololololol. After the game, CH talks to Chile girl, I talk to HB 8.5 blonde. We isolate. HB blonde and I are having a great conversation without too much teasing. I am mentally getting ready to bring it to a teasing and kino escalating level when she drops that she and her female partner are doing a long distance relationship. lololololol. We continue our great conversation, and I tell CH and NP later about how I was gonna hit on a lesbian. CH meanwhile sarges Chile girl, completely oblivious to the fact that she had a bf (he left, pissed off). Chile girl actually gets CH's number because she wants to set him up with another Asian girl. lolololol. We split up, I open a couple guys sitting down, then open an older guy near the bar. CH, NP, and I leave and go to the bar Ruls. We sit down and chat, amongst many fratty guys and dressed up girls. The three of us basically just sit and chat. HB 6.5 short (super into me but I wasn't into her) texts me and is coming to Ruls to meet us. We chat some more, she eventually makes it with a guy. I stand up and engage guy. Make him feel like he's the man. HB short is desperately trying to get my attention. I talk with her for a little, and another girl I know HB 5.5 shows up, we do the "omg haven't seen you in awhile" thing. Big social proof. Poor HB short is going crazy. NP opens some people, CH and I head to another bar. They had a weird thing where the downstairs was closed. CH and I head back to the House bar. NP follows later. HB short texts me asking where I am and I tell her. She is going to come as well. We re-enter the House. I open an Asian guy, talk to some more Asian guys. HB outdoorsy that I had opened earlier in the night and had seen my presentation from last week (social proof!) comes and re opens me. I tell her that she is too white to join our Asian posse. I introduce CH to Asians. One of the Asians # closes me, says he wants to invite me to a rager. lol. HB short makes it, trailing two guys. Those three and CH and I sit down and chat. I keep my mouth running, occupy the two guys while CH chats up HB short. He tells me later he is astounded I don't close her because of how into me she is. I tell him I'm just not attracted to her. I walk up to the bathroom, HB 6 blonde spazzy opens me as I walk past her group. I show them some cool high fives and fist bumps. Leave, come back to HB short table. I open a random guy. NP shows up, me, random guy, and NP chat near HB short's table. I get up and walk around, open a group of two guys and two girls (all Indians) playing foozball. They are completely shy and don't respond to me. I tease another group of two girls and guys behind me, they respond well and laugh. Closing time is called. I'm cruising on a social high and want to end the night on a high. HB outdoorsy stops me, I on a whim # close her (on the premise that when she and her friends go out to text me). Not into her at all. Luckily there's a blonde HB 8.5 sitting alone at the bar! BOOM no hesitation opened with "You're sitting here all alone?" First couple minutes were tease, tease, tease, high energy. Then into some fluff and some qualification with periodic teases thrown in. "You're cool! (you're cool too!) Tell me something interesting about yourself." She was on the price is right. lol. HB outdoorsy budges in, I handle it very smoothly. preselection FTW. I time bridge into karaoke sometime this coming week while bringing in good kino. She's kino-ing me back. Playing with her hair. Laughing the whole time at my baus teases and jokes. It's on! I # close her on the premise that we are going to do karaoke during the week. I continue sarging after the # close, and then eject on a high. CH tells me later that NP sarged her and she gave him the boyfriend line. Boom! I end the night feeling like a million bucks. I send her the text "Glad to meet you
-Unfazed" She sends back "You too Unfazed, enjoy the rest of your night!" I don't respond.
incredibly social, opened everyone.
fixed my crappy # close with a solid # close
opening with little lag time
used kino with HB 8.5 blonde
huge ego boost from the solid # close, running my mouth all night, and having HB short chase me everywhere
CH is getting a lot better in the conversation and the teasing department.
NP is opening more and getting more comfortable.
Things to improve:
Should've gave her a hug at the end before ejecting.
Could've gone for insta-date, but I was tired. I would guess 50% chance that she would've complied to a late night taco bell thing into cool youtube movie at my place if I had more solid late game.
Could've gone for more kino on her as well as all the rest of the sets that night. I usually don't go for kino until I know she's attracted. I need to use start using light kino before that point.
Want to work on my qualificiation and rapport / comfort game a little bit and want to make that level of # closing more consistent. Hard to be that high energy all the time.
:):) Great Friday! Happy weekend everybody. Going day sarging tomorrow morning at the Farmer's market with CH and NP. Wish us luck!