Let me start by saying I'm fairly picky about the girls I want to be my "girlfriend." The kind of girl I like is secretly nerdy while socialable and likes to party and have fun, anyways I have trouble finding these kinda girls, that are also hot enough for me to want to date.

Anyways, I met this really cute girl a little over a month ago that totally fit the bill, plus she was super cool and smart. After texting her for about a week, I was totally like this is the girl I want to try for something more than a one night fling with. Anyways we went on about three dates that following week and by that time I had "F" closed her. Anyways we had sex a few more times the following week and I asked her to be my "girlfriend" and she agreed. That was good for about another week, good communication, the sex was decent, and we had a lot of fun. We would literally spend the entire weekend together and it was pretty awesome. Anyways, starting from about last week she started her period, went back to school, and basically lost all sex drive and I was getting really weak IOIs from her. So I was racking my brain trying to figure out what the heck was going on, I brought it up with her and she mentioned that she doesn't like to have sex on period because she gets yeast infects a lot when she does. I looked it up online and that checks out. Anyways this past weekend we did a road trip to a neighboring city and spent the whole weekend together, sexless, as she was still on her period. Anyways, last night, she texted me and wanted to come over to "watch a movie" (this is code for "sex" to me), and I agreed. Half-way through the movie we start making out , etc and she still doesn't want to have sex. I end up having a conversation about why she doesn't want to have sex and that the kissing etc seems to be lacking. After to talking about it for a bit, she responded that she still wanted to date and that she only dates one person at a time but she doesn't want the title of "girlfriend" because we are moving too fast. I told her if we're just dating, I will date other people too. I'm not sure really how to respond to this. Any suggestions on how to get her back to accept that title and draw her in? I'm thinking about- reduce the number of texts during the week and establish a single date this weekend instead of a lot of time together.

Also last week she mentioned she was going to Vegas with some of her friends for their birthday and mentioned I could come. We already bought tickets, so next week (Wednesday) I'm flying to Vegas with this girl and her friends until Sunday. We're going to be sleeping together in the same bed and partying together. So I'm wondering maybe she just isn't that into me but doesn't want to make that trip awkward? I asked her about it and she said "you can still come if you want." Any tips/thoughts would be appreciated.

I wouldn't worry about the title of girlfriend or not.

You made an excellent move by saying that you would date other people.

If she wants you to come to Vegas with her, this is an obvious sign of interest.

She might just have some hormonal thing going on that is stopping the sex. More than likely this is temporary.

Yeah, well that's my standard, until I'm actually in a relationship. I figured I would freeze her for a day or two, and then try to book something on Saturday or Sunday. Does that sound good? Either way I'm rustling up my previous date partners to make plans this week, including the girl that hit me up last night.

Yeah, just wasn't sure because she originally proposed it when everything was good. Last night when our "status" changed she seemed very neutral when I asked her.

Interesting.... she just sent me a T-Shirt link she thought I would like to buy... definitely an IOI. I'll definitely respond to that today, and suggest that she should buy it for me, and probably send a text to her tomorrow.

So in case anyone wants more info, I've analyzed the situation and my failures.

In short, I'm pretty certain that now I'm in the "friend zone" with this chick. She thinks "I'm fun" and wants to continue to date, simply to make the fact that we're going to be sleeping together in Vegas less awkward. She agreed to get drinks with me on Saturday night, but I'm pretty sure this is just saving face. I can tell that my failure to make this a lasting relationship was- "over needinesses." I came across as an AFC, which was my fault as I was really into this girl. She now views me as a low-value target and decided there are probably better things out there than me. This is despite the fact that she knows I've slept with her friend in the past. Luckily, I still have my "fresh" contacts and my FWBs for the time being until I find something else to come along.

I'm still going to Vegas with her and might get into her pants again if we're both drunk, sober sex is out the window at this point. During the trip, I'm just going to be "fun"/AMOG and not mention anything about our previous and/or future status. I'll have to completely ignore her after the trip and possibly re-visit this in a few years, if it still seems plausible. If you guys have any other ideas how to put her back into the F zone, that would be helpful. Time and the situational tactics are rather limited at this point as I have a hard date to fly to Vegas with her on Wednesday.