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marius1815 New to PUA Forum Joined: 24 Aug 2007 Posts: 19 Reputation: 55.6	Posted: Tue Nov 03, 2009 1:17 am    Post subject: Feel like its too late for me I'm finishing college and kind of feel like its too late for me. I was a shy quiet kid all through elementary school, but I moved in 6th grade and had a chance to reinvent myself as a wild class clown. I had quite a few attractive popular girls literally chasing me, but nothing serious came of it. I had the good luck to read Don Juan Bible in 2005, before PUA became public, and I could have used it to my advantage. But I figured I was already doing cock comedy, by being funny and hard to get. And I was under the illusion that all I had to do is keep working out, and if I reached a certain level of fitness I would win a girlfriend like a trophy. Anyway after missing the dating scene all through high school and college, where it supposed to be so easy for anyone to have a harem, unless you're a complete loser omega, I kind of feel hopeless. I made a few PUA attempts in college and did some winging, and nothing worked. It seems as I get older my social opportunities will get even narrower since I wont have the same easy networks with females that school provides, and the workplace will provide far fewer social contacts. Plus I feel like I missed out on a lot of the excitement of a boy having his first girl, that comes in the boyhood/ teen years, that feels meaningless and pathetic to a guy in his mid-20s.
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Herne New to PUA Forum Joined: 03 Nov 2009 Posts: 17 Reputation: 0.7	Posted: Tue Nov 03, 2009 6:09 am    Post subject: Never too late buddy
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10seconds PUA Forum Addict Joined: 23 Sep 2008 Posts: 244 Reputation: 59.8 votes: 5	Posted: Tue Nov 03, 2009 8:21 am    Post subject: Dude, there are guys who started looking at PU in their 50's! Tyler Durden from RSD mentioned a guy who came to one of his bootcamps who was 55 in one of his seminars. You're constantly changing, whether you're aware of it or not, and more often than not you have no idea where you're going or how to get there. Studying PU helps with that by giving you many routes to take to slowly start reaching your goal. The question isn't whether its too late or not but rather whether you're willing to commit to improving yourself and willing to change.
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Snakez PUA Forum Addict Joined: 17 Mar 2009 Posts: 258 Location: Westside, Cali Reputation: 43.4 votes: 1	Posted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 10:34 am    Post subject: Re: Feel like its too late for me marius1815 wrote: I feel like its too late for me. I feel like I missed out on a lot of the excitement of a boy having his first girl, that comes in the boyhood/ teen years, that feels meaningless and pathetic to a guy in his mid-20s. For one thing, the whole "I've been missing out " phenomenon is very common, especially after finishing a section of school. You are more conscious about missed opportunities and being that you're about to finish school, you might feel like you let yourself down? Try to just let it go and move on, because holding onto this regret affects your game and relationships negatively. This attitude of filling a void inside by trying to conpensate for lost time will give you distorted perceptions of your present self, you may end up settling for something less than what you really want or trying to recreate experiences you wished you had, being in your own head and out of touch with the social dynamics and what the other person is feeling. Hit the reset button and start with some goals; decide what you want first.
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