Theres this one HB9 on my school bus ive been dying to tlk to shes a senior and im a sophmore. During my freshman year i was to scared to say anything but now after discovering all this pick up stuff i might give it a try. I have a big fear of being rejected and approach anxiety. Does anybody have any suggestions for opening and some negs or somthing for this situation? thx in advance

Buses can be tricky, because you're stuck in one seat for a trip, and are usually limited to talking to the people around you. You will have to take the initiative and squeeze in next to her, and then(and this is important) don't sit their silently like an idiot, say good morning, hi or whatever comes to mind. She's next to you, she has to talk really. Just make sure you keep it going once you've established a convo. I read something on this(keeping a conversation going) in the forum recently, look around.
And good luck

HS was a while ago but I can grasp the dynamic I think.

Don't worry about crashing - if it goes bad - well you are a sophomore and you are SUPPOSED to do crap like that. There is going to be the peer stigma of Senior vs Sophomore for her so that will have to be over come.

Work the situation like any other - just realize you are really going to have to stand out either with charm or charisma because she has to get over the idea that you are below her socially (if HS is still like it was when I was there).

Your peers are going to revere you either way - make the deal - you are King, flame out - you tried what all of them were scared to do. Plus if it gets known you were swinging for the fences with Senior Girl - the chicks in your class are gonna wonder why you don't think they are good enough. Use that - make them prove to you that they are worthy - they want to do it in their hearts - HS is all about acceptance.

Good Luck.

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I got to get into this dude's pelt and crawl around for a few days. Who's the gopher's ally? His friends. The harmless squirrel and the friendly rabbit.

Yeah im worried about her being an upperclassmen and thinking im not good enough. She always sits alone and looks out the window and dosnt really talk to anyone. I dont know if i'll have the balls to say somthing but if i do what should i say?

She always sits alone? Do you get on first or does she?

Is she is first, just go and sit with her. Just walk up, don't say anything and plop down next to her.

If she gets on after you, make a reason for moving from where you are at to where she is.

It is highschool right....

To the people around you... Did you just crap your pants? Why does it smell so bad around here?

Get up and go sit with her.

Now that you are there. Find something that she is wearing that may catch your attention. Find something.

Look at it, look at her face, then look at it again. Make sure she sees you doing it. Have a frown on your face. Then when she is looking at you, look her in the eyes. Tease her about whatever you were looking at..

Is she sitting there not talking to anyone? Does she ever talk to anyone? Or is there no one good enough on the bus for her to talk to?
It matters to how you tease her.

e.g., nice tease - Cute shoes (hair clip, hair clip, belt) My friends little sister has one like it. Maybe you two shop at the same kid store.
(This can lead to a conversation of where she got it)

snob girl- Was your power off this morning?
(snob) No why
You: I figured it was dark in your house when you got dressed because there is no way I can see someone choosing to put those two things together..... Give her a wink or slight smile.

Then go on and tell her how to dress, joking around of course.

But to be honest, it already sounds like you are defeated. You are already questioning yourself. Who cares if she is a senior. You need to walk up to her with confidence, look her in the eyes with confidence, and tease her with confidence. With anything but confidence, it does not matter what you say, you have already lost.

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

thank you so much valence do you have an aim sn that i could tlk to you on?