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Cndos
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Joined: 23 Sep 2007
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 Posted: Thu Jan 24, 2008 10:22 am Post subject: Fear of Embarassing |
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Yo people,
I Got this Fear of Embarassing.
It makes me blush and its very annoying.
Got any ideas how to solve it?
and just saying to yourself i'm man doesn't rlly work.
thx in advance,
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PrettyBoy41
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Joined: 24 Sep 2007
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Location: the YAY area
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alright first man, if your from an english speaking country, learn proper english, jagged and improper english just exudes an uneducated aura, and you dont want that.
It's the fact that you just care too much about what people think of you. the people that are the most fun to hang out are the ones taht have 0 pride and have the ability to laugh at themselves. I remember, one of the most popular kids in my high school was this hilarious fat kid, and any time someone would mention a mistake he made he would say, shut up! im fat!
and he would laugh while he did it, and he was the most popular kid at school. Go watch jackass. look at the things they do in public. go out in a man sized diper and run around. just anything to break or at least expand your comfort zone. thats my advice. |
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Brainz
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Joined: 03 Mar 2008
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Location: Canada
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I have to disagree with you in part PrettyBoy41 because pride is important to me: I like to show that I'm worth more than some two-cent whore and that any chick who wants a chance to talk with me better know that first (there are a lot of slutty girls where I'm from).
But I would definitely say this: once you've lost everything and have nothing to lose, you're untouchable, so be proud of who you are but know when to set it aside in order to allow yourself to make mistakes! Besides, I actually take pride in my mistakes; when it comes to the community it's like a battle scar! 
So! Moral of the story? Pretend that you've got nothing to lose, because in fact you've got everything to gain!
Here's something I've been experimenting with: pretend the HB that you're talking to has the dentures of a horse or a clowns' nose and start laughing at her inside your head. If you crack a random smile (or you feel that it might show in your body language that you're thinking of something funny), start telling a joke or a funny story so that she thinks that you were thinking of that funny story/joke instead of her new fantasy facial gear.  |
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