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TheLearner
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 Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 8:10 am Post subject: Facebook Interractions OK, but won't pick up their phones? |
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I know it's a problem on my end, but I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
I've met a few girls around campus. I get their phone numbers. I make my first call to them a short bullshit call just to establish that they're in my network of people I communicate with. The second call is a little longer and I plan a day 2. Usually after the day 2, I'm never able to get the girl on the phone again, regardles of whether i leave a message or not. I'm guessing it's something I'm doing wrong during the day2. I usually go to eat and we talk. the conversation is always goes smoothly, they laugh a lot, but I need to work on my kino. Anyway, I have facebook and I often exchange messages with these girls, but the problem is that after the day 2, they never pick up their phone or anything, but they WILL answer my wall posts on facebook.
I'm beginning to think that they'll respond wall posts because it's male attention that's out in the internet public, so she can boost her ego a little bit, but when it comes to phone calls it's just me and her, and for whatever reason she's not really into me.
what do you guys think about this? I'm all ears/eyes. willing to learn and apply. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Sun Oct 21, 2007 9:04 am Post subject: |
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I think you have a point about the Facebook deal. Honestly, I WOULDN'T leave any messages for them on Facebook. If they won't answer your calls, FLUSH THEM IMMEDIATELY. They aren't worth any more of your time. Your more valuable than that.
Now, on getting them to talk to you after the Day2. Obviously, either each and every girl is playing you, or you're right and there is something you're doing to push them away. Maybe it is lack of kino. You definitely need to build the kino. You need to build attraction, kino, and comfort all at the same time. If you do all of those successfully, they should call YOU instead of you chasing them.
As SOON as you are chasing her, IT'S OVER. Also, watch your body language on the Day2. If possible, enlist a girl as a FRIEND to hang out with you and pay attention to any detail about you that she can. Have her to bring attention to ANYTHING about you that would make a girl feel LESS secure with you. And, anything that you might be doing that could make a girl feel threated by you or that you might be doing to make her think YOU'RE not open to her. Believe me, a woman's viewpoint on that stuff could cause a complete shift in your mental frame. And that's a good thing. |
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