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jinla
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 Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 11:43 am Post subject: F-closed tonight |
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Man I swear this shit went textbook.
Here is what I can remember:
An 8 (latina) and a 3 (who cares) walk by me. The three stops to talk to me. She is obviously interested. So I milk It for what it is worth, I talk to her, and while I don't ignore the 8 I don't initialize any conversation with her. I only make occasional EC when talking to both. Anything she said I negged as much as I could. While she didn't show me any obvious IOIs, she did keep initializing convo with me which I took as a plus.
I give them the standard "well I have to go talk with my friends, you two go get yourselves some drinks". Afterward I DHV as much as I could. Talking to girls and guys. At one point I caught the 8 looking at me (as well as the 3 and their 5 friend that was now in the group).
Throughout the night I notice two other guys go in and talk to her. Both of which she talked to for long periods of time. Then even my friend went I and tried (he didn't know I was already gaming her).
Then a big gift, her two friends leave her alone at the party. WTF! So here's what I do, it was ruthless. I walk right up while she is still talking to guy #2, and grab her by the elbow and tell her "come over her and talk to me." Isolation.
I can't claim that I was great, and I think if this would have been a 10, I would have lost her. At times I stuttered and went cold, but I just always fell back on some fluff question to keep me alive. Another thing I did (once I knew I was passed the hook point) was just remain silent, stare in her eyes, and make her say something (why waste you breathe if you don't have to).
At some point in our convo she gives me all the ammo I need.
jinla: *staring in her eyes*
HB8: you're to young for me
jinla: your just scared of me
HB8: besides that guy (#2) is giving me a ride home tonite anyway
jinla: not anymore
jinla: what would he do if I kissed you right now
She didn't, and I swear it took me another 20 mins to isolate her to another room in the house. the whole time she gives me shit test after shit test all of which I destroy, Even telling her "why are you giving me this shit test" each time she did. We sit down on the couch, she still won't kiss me. even pushed me away quite a few times. But while these were her actions her body language was telling a whole different story. So I knew I had the upper hand and didn't worry about any failures.
At some point she goes to the bathroom and guy #2 comes by. I tell him I am sorry for stealing his action for the night. He took it well and wished me good luck.
When she comes back,
jinla: do you want me to take you home
HB8: yes!
I make her walk almost a mile to my car. The whole time she gives me shit tests, all of which I again destroy.
We get to her house, she brings me in her room, we make out, we fuck. Good girl too, she really had a smokin body, and was a total freak.
Well that's the story of my first f-close since being on this forum.
I would have to say that the thing that got it for me was that once I knew I was passed the hook point I didn't let any of her excuses and shit tests faze me in the least bit.
I kept saying, "you know you are having fun with me right now"
and "I am being straight forward with you, why are you giving me all these shit tests"
Much better result than last saturday, when I was AFCd. |
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Memento
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| Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 4:25 pm Post subject: |
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bravo, and as you said, completely textbook 
- Memento |
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Whitey
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| Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 5:32 pm Post subject: |
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| wow, thats a stand up guy to admit defeat. where i live you would've got your ass kicked by that random guy and 5 of his friends |
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jinla
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| Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 6:09 pm Post subject: |
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Guys should not be fighting over girls, were all on the same team.
He respected the game. I didn't do him that dirty. He had just gotten complacent, and didn't know I was out there lurking.
It was an audacious but respectful pull. I didn't pull her away mid sentence or anything. I came in at a point when he was talking to someone else. |
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Paradise
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| Posted: Tue Sep 11, 2007 3:46 am Post subject: |
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good job.
can you do a favor and go into a little more detail about some of the shit tests she threw at you? |
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jinla
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| Posted: Tue Sep 11, 2007 6:47 am Post subject: |
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Yeah i wish I could. I was a little drunk and high so my memory of the actual convo is faded. I do remember that we bantered all the way to her bed.
one was about me being short (i'm 5'7" or 5'8", she was like 5'9" with heels)
many were about me being immature
on the way to the car she asked if i was a serial killer
if more come back to me i'll post them |
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JUSTINcredible!
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| Posted: Tue Sep 11, 2007 6:57 am Post subject: |
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...respect.
lol Serial killer.
my response
"How do I know Youre not a serial killer? You just might kill me and jack my car?" |
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