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P.I.M.P
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 Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 2:02 pm Post subject: Eye Contact, In Class and In General |
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Hey guys,
Does anyone have some tips on eye contact in general? Or in a class room (highschool or university). I was talking this over with another memeber here yesterday and he really opened my eyes to this and showed me that I was doing several things wrong. For one, I learned not to watch them go to there seat lmao (which I always used to do). Secondly not to try to force eye contact, only make eyecontact if she is looking at you, and then look away first confidantly. Does anyone else have any eye contact/body language tips for the classroom or any in general?
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braziliron
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| Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 8:44 pm Post subject: |
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Yeh don't give them attention as they walk in all the AFC's will be gazing in longing but by ignoring them it sets you apart and means they will have to put in effort to get your attention in other ways.
Eye contact does show superiority so hold it yet don't stare, if u look at a girl in class or over bar, hold contact for a few milliseconds longer than usual don't just turn away, this shows u as a potential interest for the girl. (preferably speak to them later... separate matter).
If your one on one with a girl on a date always keep eye contact
Finally NEVER just look at the floor or around wen talking to girls.. it looks stupid and weak so just always have some eye contact |
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DevonW
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| Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 1:55 pm Post subject: |
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I agree with braziliron for the most part.
I would kinda use your peripherals to see when she looks at you (try and dress peacock so she does this often) and when you notice her looking your way, slowly turn your head and get some eye contact, and try to give a nice smile, not some perverted smile but a friendly one.
You need to hold the eye contact slightly longer than her, this is a MAJOR self confidence test for me. If you look away before her then shell think your cowardly and it will make the rest of your pickup awkward. However, if you hold just longer than her, it shows courage and confidence, maybe consider giving her a friendly wave something to draw her attention when your holding eye contact, and from there you can approach. Do this within the 3 second rule, otherwise you look like a creep, and your brain trys to talk you out of it. Just walk up and try a school related opener just to get her talking and you can handle it from there  |
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P.I.M.P
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| Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 11:25 pm Post subject: |
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| Thank you guys for the advice. Ive been not looking at the girls almost at all and especially not when there walking to there seats. I've experienced some success I see them trying to get my attention and they look at me a lot more for sure. I read somewhere that you should always hold eye contact longer then the girl |
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