I've been with this girl only four months, but have been seeing her for a year, honestly it feels like much longer than 4 months though, I was sleeping with her within 2 months and we was only having sex with each other and no one else. She liked me a lot from the start but I didn't start liking her until about 7 months down the line. 2 months ago she told me she loved me, the relationship was at its peak then and everything was real good. Roughly a month later I told her I loved her and she cried from happiness because she never expected because of my mentality.
Roughly a month ago I had several exams I needed to do, which were very important. So around this time we barely spoke and I finished them 2 weeks ago. Ever since then, because we didn't communicate much, a lot of things have changed and were currently not together.
She always wanted me to speak to her a lot, and we spoke most days seeing each other a few times a week, mainly weekends. When the exams were happening it all changed, I saw her maybe once a week for half a day, and spoke to her through the phone every other day although she couldn't handle ti, she hated it. While this happened she got mentally stronger and stopped herself from getting upset, but this has now carried on to after the exams and its gone down hill since the exams have finished, instead of showing she's upset when she argues with me she shows anger instead, and turns bitchy a lot. Lately now were kind of not together she compared our relationship to others a lot which I hate, I've always told her I'm not like anyone else and she knows that but still does it.
Her last relationship she was very dominant in, her ex was basically a serious AFC, she could get what she wanted and told me all this at the start. The other day she phoned him and said sorry for how she treated him, purely because I was dominant in this relationship like she was with him and abused her power, she hated when she got upset from how I treated her at the start and regretted how she cheated her ex. they split up about a year and half ago, orignally she started seeing me to get over him, but it ended up she really liked me and we got together. I was a bit weirded out about this when she told me she phoned him and said this. I dunno what to make out of it.
I love her deep down and she does too, but she's relying on me to put in the effort because she feels I don't ever since the exams. Ever since the exams though because she put pressure on me and become upset I feel kind of reluctant to do so for some reason. Before she used to put in so much effort and didn't care how I feel because she wanted me to like her. But now she says she's scared to get hurt and that I might not care if she goes all out and shows me how much she wants it. I want it to go to how it was before but I have no idea if it will because I hate how the relationship is right now, arguing over nothing and everything getting out of control.
EDIT: another thing, we used to have sex all the while, most times a week, but now sometimes she would tell me she wouldn't want it for some reason. Sewxitself was never the same or as good as before. She used to be always horny and want sex all the while.
I'm half asleep right now writing this so it might not be explained to well or even make sense in some parts
I do know 1 thing though, bitches they come they go