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Austin87
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 Posted: Wed Jun 17, 2009 12:31 pm Post subject: Entering the PUA World |
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Hey guys, my name's Steven, I'm 21, and I'm from Texas. I've spent the past year studying abroad in Vienna, Austria, and I'll be here for until the beginning of July. I love the arts, like live music (from jazz to heavy metal) and photography; but I also love socializing. Meeting new people, talking to old friends, having a beer in the pub or out in a park, whatever.
The problem is, I have a really hard time expressing to women that I'm interested in them. I often end up as the "good friend" or "nice guy" because I don't know how to move from "friend" to "relationship material". The few times in recent history that I've attempted to move from "friend" to "relationship", the girl has said that she doesn't want to "hurt our friendship" or that she's "satisfied with our current relationship". I often feel like my attempts at flirting just come across as creepy, so I don't attempt them very often.
I recently read Style's book, and that led me to read a few articles on Herbal's blog and watch some videos from Mystery. I sent the book on to a friend of mine (Jezebel, she just joined too), and we plan to spend the next few weeks together learning how to game together.
My goal isn't to become a master PUA who brings home a new girl 3 or 4 times a week; instead, I just want to learn more about social interaction, and how to think & act around women. I want to get over my anxieties, fears, and confidence issues, and change the "best friend" vibe into a "great partner" vibe.  |
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Jezebel
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| Posted: Wed Jun 17, 2009 3:34 pm Post subject: Nice to see you here! |
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Hey Steve, i am really happy to see you here!  The today's plan didn't work so well, but tomorrow is a new Evening too 
I wish you all the 'luck', actually the skills!
There's something good about going into the 'friends' circle, don't you think? These friends sometime can turn into a wing 
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Austin87
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| Posted: Wed Jun 17, 2009 4:07 pm Post subject: |
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Not just a wing, but a pivot and social validation, too! You have so many uses!
Oh, and you can be a decent friend, too. I guess. |
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spl1nt3r
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| Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2009 8:46 am Post subject: |
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Hey,
I am going to be in Vienna from 2010 onwards and im looking for wings so if you interested pm me, cheers. |
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Jezebel
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| Posted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 6:14 pm Post subject: |
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Heya spl1nt3r,
unfortunately Austinh87 is back to the states ;( But if you are looking for a wing, drop me a pm
Cheers and enjoy your new start in Vienna
Jez |
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