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xvxv3ndetta
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 Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 1:10 am Post subject: effin 12 set,m wth do i do? |
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Grr... my lack of experience is killing me. I should of approached. Im making excuses.
But what the hell, i need your take on this.
If you were at the mall were people are moving, and you were by yourself, how would you open up to a set of 12 people and only one of which is your target?
What topics would you hurl up, what kind of stories, what should I do?
I know the mystrey method... but I serious FORGET and FREEZE that I end up throwin bullshit up just to get by. |
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dirtysoap
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Theres two things you could do:
1. Just straight up talk to them, 100% improvised. This, I know from my own experience, is close to impossible especially if you are more on the introvert side.
2. Take baby steps. My biggest problem when i was learning (and still learning) the game is i expected to do too much off the bat. I get pumped up, tell myself "OK, TODAY IS THE DAY", id get primed.. then when id see the hottie waiting for the bus, id choke up, create excuses and go ultimitely go backwards in my self confidence, rather than progressing and improving. You need to take smaller steps that you know you can do and progress up to where you wanna be. You constantly hear in all the PU guru's writing that you need to become a more social guy in general. Yesterday i help a random german travelor with his luggage; by the time we got to the metro station i knew his life story. This shit dont happen over night with some magic line.
What the steps are is up to you. I had to start with getting used to asking people for the time, moved up to asking girls wheres a fun place to hang out at night. Im still a long way from being a day-game genius, but at least im moving slowly towards it. slowly, but surely |
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xvxv3ndetta
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| Posted: Sat Dec 29, 2007 5:26 am Post subject: |
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| thanks, i guess your right there. if i feel daring, I'll give it a shot. thanks man. |
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