I'm starting to write newsletters, I'll post 'em on here and I want your guys' opinions. What I write is the opinion of mine on attraction matters.

First one: don't do shit.

Most people that join PUA do so because they think they need to "become" something in order to be attractive. That's not true. Right now, right out there somewhere, is a perfectly good girl that would fuck your brains out. A big problem people have is trying to "do" things in order to get somewhere.

What can I do to make her smile?

What can I do to get her in bed?

In reality, the secret is to just relax. Let things happen. Realize that hey, maybe she won't like you, and that's perfectly fine. I've been in seduction for 1.5 years and barely any girls are attracted to me.

You don't have to do anything in order to have a girl like you. Also, you can't control attraction. Nature has its way of seeing if you're compatible. When people say "be yourself" they really mean just let things happen. If you're on a date and you're like "oh shit, I've gotta make her laugh," you're not being yourself. If you see an awkward silence and you try and do something about it, you're not being yourself. Don't force an outcome, just let things happen.