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curls
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 Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 11:07 pm Post subject: does figthing raise ur confidence and alphaness? |
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does figthing raise ur confidence and alphaness?
just wondering, and is it good to show girls ur tough. |
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tical
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 11:15 pm Post subject: |
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| dont know about the 2nd question, but it does make u more confident. |
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thugnificent
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Only fight if absolutely necessary and if you have a feeling you'll win. Sure if you kick the leader's ass of a group I'm sure you'll get some respect but it isn't worth it i the long run. Confidence? I guess putting someone in their place is a confidence booster  but what happens if you lose? 
Besides leve the fighting to the kids
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 11:24 pm Post subject: |
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99% of the time getting in a fight is a DLV.
Personally I'll let 2 guys duke it out while I steal both thier women. |
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Ka
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 11:50 pm Post subject: |
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Big time DLV..we see it as being able to defend them, they seeing it as potentially abuseing them.
Much better to defuse a situation verbally, through AMOG's and Negs. This doesnt mean take a beating if you cant avoid it, but you shouldnt go trying to look tuff.
Basically if anything you do comes accross as "try hard" it will be a DLV. |
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mozyFresh
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| Posted: Wed Dec 12, 2007 12:14 am Post subject: |
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I would'nt recommend it, plus if go round scrapping all the time your just gonna end up looking like an ugly mug. There are better ways to raise confidence and show others your an alpha male. You dont have to be the toughest in the bunch, everyone has there strengths. Sure girls like a guy why can look after them and stick up for themselves, but when it comes to fighting, only if you have to.
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cab5
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dude fighting sucks. you either lose and spend the night in accident and emergency feeling sorry for yourself, or win and wake up the next day feeling like an absolute twat and guilty as hell. don't do it bro. only if one of your mates is getting wailed on.
maybe if anything just demonstrate to her a willingness to get stuck in if it was the right thing to do. |
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Starbuck
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| Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 1:28 am Post subject: |
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Most chicks understandably don't like violence at all. And the ones that do should be avoided.
Like Doc says, it's DLV.
There are better ways of solving your problems. Better to be smarter than others.
That being said all men should be prepared to defend themselves, or relocate themselves and their dates at all times. Better to practice situational awareness and do so before the situation deteriorates to this level. |
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| Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 7:14 am Post subject: |
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| Yes like everybody said fighting would be DLV no girl i know likes fights they find it childish and immature. What this means is they wont be interested in you. But if you think about it Mystery talks about how women want to know that you can take care of them so i guess in some way if you look at it they can see it as you showing them that you can take care of them and protect them. But no doubt i dont think there should be a fight unless ur helping out your best buddy or if one of your family members are being hurt..... |
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Numen
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| Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 7:39 am Post subject: |
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| fighting is a huge DLV... however, if a guy tries to start a fight and you get him to back down with just body language and eye contact it's a huge DHV.. also breaking up fights is a huge DHV also |
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| Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2007 4:52 pm Post subject: |
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Fighting to prove something is stupid.
Fighting to show off is stupid.
Fighting cause you are drunk prick is stupid.
Fighting cause somebody affended you and you have so low selfconfidence that you have to respond with punch is stupid.
On the other hand:
(only if you can`t deal stuff differently)
Fighting to protect someone weak and innocent from bully attack is noble.
Fighting to protect loved ones is noble.
Bitchslaping some asshole who is beating a female is great.
Summary:
Fighting for stupid reasons or just showing off is totally stupid and huge DLV but sometimes (rarely but I mentioned specific situations) there is no other way and it can be huge DHV. Anyway, try to avoid it whenever you can. |
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| I think if you know how how to fight it will definitely keep you more confident because you know exactly to do in a situation if you have to.. but honestly fighting is stupid unless you have a really good reason to. I recently got in an altercation with my roommate( i know it sucks really bad) where basically he pushed me against the wall and his friend shoved me hard to the ground... I didn't fight back (even though I feel like I should of) but it doesn't matter because this hot tanned blonde girl with big boobs I was spitting game too came to my room after and made sure I was ok. I think you have to fight if somebody physically tries to hurt you... but what makes you DHV is if you stand up for your self strongly enough or for another girl..that alone shows her you are the protector and can be DHV but fighting recklessly for not a good reason shows immaturity and if you get fucked up you will look like a dumb ass if you started it... |
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