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4myed
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 Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 11:36 pm Post subject: Do you guys wait hours to respond to text messages fr HBs? |
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I got a text from a HB10+ that I have been crazy about for nearly a year. We text, chat, IM, email and talk all the time, but every now and then I wait for hours to get back to her.
Am I sabotaging my chances with her? Or do you think she thinks I'm cool? |
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96Firebird
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It shows you aren't waiting around for her texts, even if you are. It shows you might be busy with something, that you have a life. I do it all the time, sometimes I never respond if its something stupid (like those send this to 15 people or else you will die - retarded messages). But I'd say if you want to go further with her, call her next time she texts you.
Oh, if you mean waiting a few hours in the middle of a conversation, thats just weird. |
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3 hands
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I respond more or less right away, Else I might go in the thinking mode, say something stupid, or forget I ever got the messege. The last one happens the most  Then I meet her and check my phone, and Hey, you did send me a messege! So, my advice is to just think about what to say for a moment then type it. And only check the phone when you actually have time to type back.
As for waiting for a return messege, Don't wait for it to come, Get your mind off the subject. |
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hotttness
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You've been crazy about her for a year????
Ok.. cut of all communication with her for at least 2 months. Then text her again asking her where's shes been, when she replies the same say you've been rock climbing, or some such. Get some pictures of yourself doing some awesome sh*t and say you got to meet up sometime to catch up and go over stories.
If that doesn't work... just give up.
/my 2 cents |
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braziliron
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| hotttness wrote: | You've been crazy about her for a year????
Ok.. cut of all communication with her for at least 2 months. |
wow! calm down.. its a drastic option.. not a bad one BUT i say: maybe cut convo and seeing for a few weeks then u need to see her act like you don't care bout her.. sort of neg/ignore but still be polite then i would move in later in the night.. take her aside talk with eye contact held and maybe phase shift but this would help me evaluate the situation |
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braziliron
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| * act like not seeing her hasnt bothered you if u can slightly flirt with others |
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JamesFlames
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| Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2007 6:48 am Post subject: hmm |
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| I think a balanced approach is best. It would seem odd, possibly fake, if you always took ages to reply. Mix it up. Whatever you do dont bombard her with txts! |
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The Bad Guy
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| Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 12:51 pm Post subject: Re: Do you guys wait hours to respond to text messages fr HB |
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| 4myed wrote: | I got a text from a HB10+ that I have been crazy about for nearly a year. We text, chat, IM, email and talk all the time, but every now and then I wait for hours to get back to her.
Am I sabotaging my chances with her? Or do you think she thinks I'm cool? |
You care too much about this girl. You're ruining your chances by over thinking the simplest details of your courtship. |
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chrispb7
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| i dont reply to dumb comments and i just make sure i take longer to reply than she does |
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worm
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| Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 2:06 am Post subject: Re: Do you guys wait hours to respond to text messages fr HB |
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| The Bad Guy wrote: | | 4myed wrote: | I got a text from a HB10+ that I have been crazy about for nearly a year. We text, chat, IM, email and talk all the time, but every now and then I wait for hours to get back to her.
Am I sabotaging my chances with her? Or do you think she thinks I'm cool? |
You care too much about this girl. You're ruining your chances by over thinking the simplest details of your courtship. |
yep, i would have tapped that within the first couple of days... if you haven't tapped it by then i'd just leave her and find another hb10 that even hotter than her and nail that. waiting for a year for some cooze isn't the way to go... if you haven't nailed her yet then she most than likely has someone else doing the job especially since she is an hb10. |
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LUSTER
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I agree with hottness to an extent. I've known a girl for ages h\who is an easy nine but convos were to strung out because of your "leave a few hours aproach". I jsut stopped replying for a month,(this was my first pick up ever) and then said we should meet up and catch up and the dead was then done.
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SetherCraze
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| LUSTER wrote: | I agree with hottness to an extent. I've known a girl for ages h\who is an easy nine but convos were to strung out because of your "leave a few hours aproach". I jsut stopped replying for a month,(this was my first pick up ever) and then said we should meet up and catch up and the dead was then done.
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agree agree agree, its a long term cat string theory. |
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