Long story short. Met a girl, spent a few as with her, really built a really good connection with her immediately. Now this is the first girl that I'm texting frequently after reading up keeping in mind what I'm actually doing. And its going really well. she was texting me as soon as I left her for the first time and constantly ever since.. Only been a few days. I used to try texting a girl every day and learned the hard way. But this one is almost always the one trying to start up the convo. So normally it would be good to leave her alone for a day or two before trying again.. But if she's texting me, why should I ignore her?
Now, its not like I'm jumping at her every message. I've been crazy busy so I could answer her in five seconds or five hours, and then non stop for three hours. So what do you think? If its obvious there's a huge connection there, and if she's is usually starting up the texting, should I not respond when I have the chance?
I know I'm likely making something of nothing and I'm clearly Doing well, she even commented how fun I was to text, but I've fucked up big in these regards before so just getting extra opinions.
Why would you stop texting her? why if a girl wants to talk to you, you would ignore her?
Play hard to get is to build attraction, she likes you. You dont need that, what you need is to show her that you are the best guy for her. (I don't know you intentions with the girl)
Just don't be needy, that is not equal to ignore her. You have to calibrate a lot in these cases.
One time I tried to ignore a girl that was into me, she texted me " you dont have to be an a**hole, just tell me that you don't want to talk to me".
So girls could be rude and hard to get sometimes, but sometimes they really like you and that turn them off.
Main advice, just don't be needy. Honestly your next text to her, should say " Im going out this weekend you are allow to come" Stop texting when you could meet her.
Bonne chance my friend!