EvoJ
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1) DHV: A couple of weeks ago I get this call from an X of mine from Decatur, we talk from time to time, and she is freaking the fuck out. She is screaming about her pregnant cat not getting off her bed or something. So I do my best to calm her down and in a couple of minutes I finally get what is actually going on out of her. It turns out that it is about time for her pregger cat to give birth and she doesn't want that happening on her bed. I tell her to relax and to go into her closet and clear out all those sex-toys and put in a large cardboard box. Then line the box with soft and Disposable towels. After that, she needs to take the pregnant cat to the box and show her it is a nice, dark, warm, secluded place for her to have kittens. So my friend says that she would do this and thanks me etc ... Well, about a week later I recieve a second frantic call from her. It turns out her cat is going into labor and my friend is freakin out. She doesn't know what to do and wants me to drive out there. I try to persuade her that nature WILL take its course and that I don't need to come out there but she says she really needs me and so I get in my car and drive the freakin hour and a half to go stare at a cat giving birth. Lemmie tell you, I was really looking forward to that. So I drive out there and knock on her door. She answers it and rushes to give me a big hug, I comfort her for a few seconds and then realize she is covered in ... we will just call it "mess". So she takes me upstairs and shows me the birthing place. Her cat has given birth to 4 at this time and was working on a fifth. I turn back to her and say "You go get a shower and I will suprovise and clean up here." My Friend gives me this thank you so much look and goes off to get clean and I turn to make the entire scene a bit more palitable. By the time she gets back, mama cat is finished with her delivery and I have all 5 of the kittens cleaned up and all the nasty towels in a plastic bag ready for disposal. After that, my friend tells me that she is going to cook me dinner to repay me for my help and asks me to stay there for awhile to look after the new kittens. I say that I have to make a few calls to cancel some stuff but it would be alright. I make the calls while she is making dinner and we spend the evening watching the new mama clean and tend to her cute little mewing kittens.
There... that is close enough. IT shows lots of different good traits without ever actually saying "I am a good friend." and "My X gf still comes to me for help and support" and "I keep my cool in a crisis situation".
Remember, Rich men don't have to tell you they are rich.
2. By qualifiers I think you mean statements that make the woman qualify to you.
. Beauty is common and I'm looking for much more than that... what are some other important attributes that you think I should know about you.
I'm looking for a woman who is smart as well as stylish, I can see you've got style...
etc.
3. Comfort builders are in general statements that make them feel like you are right there with them OR that you already know about them. Share a story with them that was emotional to you that they can relate to. Your dog died recently and so your out drinking in his memory or how you realized you wanted to be a fence maker because your grandfather once had a long talk with you about how large fences making good neighbors.
Just stuff like that but make sure that it is real! or atleast you are saying with sincerity because women know if your not sincere.
hope this helps.
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