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Spice-Boy
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 Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 3:17 pm Post subject: DHV/ Routine Help |
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Hey Guys...
Just a quick question...when you are sarging and interacting with a HB...do you try and assess which routine is suitable for her personality?? Because for example...with this one interaction with a HB10 we were just having a lot of banter and fun after i opened...didn't really go into any routines...her personality was fun and silly which was cute...then i went into some routines and i kind of ruined it, i should have kept them fun and silyl like 5 lies game and similar but i some more serious stuff like the cube and i could tell she wasn't into it so i then had to go back to just being fun and then went into 5 lies which worked a treat!!
So do you guys asses what routines to use based on their personailty or do you just use the same ones all the time and maybe just adapt them?? |
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GATA
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| Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 3:41 pm Post subject: |
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| I try not to think too much for one. I often use openers and time constraints based on the environment (school setting, club setting, coffee shop, etc.) but my initial opener is never directly related to her personality or her HB number. |
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Spice-Boy
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 11:59 am Post subject: |
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Thanks for the reply...
I was more thinking in terms of routines and dhv...not really an opener...its after the opener when you're building rapport and just having a bit of banter with them, you slowly get a feel for their personality!!
Anyone have any thoughts on this...do you adapt your routines for certain personalities...eg for a non serious playfull girl just go with 5 lies or do u just adapt more serious routines like the cube and make them more playful towards them?? |
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Fin
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 12:49 pm Post subject: |
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Yes very much so, the ability to calibrate body laungauge can ultimatley define you as a PUA.
You need to be able to discern when she is ready to stop faffing around with little flirts, and move into more personnal things.
Reading people and seeing how they feel, without asking them is one of the biggest parts in PU. |
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