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The Wild One
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 Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2007 10:00 pm Post subject: DHV AND NEG PROBLEMS THAT PLAGUE NEW GUYS |
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| Ok guys this is for guys like me that tend to love to elaborate to their buddies on their sexual exploits. I just want to remind you guys to never tell these things to women. Don't bring up past success stories to dhv girls in fact never mention girls around hot women. When you dhv it has to be subtle like a neg, and you can't over do it. Most new guys think the need an elaborate story or they need to insult women strait up. NO!!! Don't do this it will backfire in your face. What you want to do is in a humble way dhv yourself while in comfort, and when you neg do it playfully not out of anger. Do not neg a girl constantly or excessively and when using these subtle negs touch her softly and then start warming her up. Only brag to your buddies but never talk about another women to a girl. She will think your like every dumb guy that does it. So remember be smooth. The key to getting with a women is getting her to run her mouth without you saying a thing, and listening to what she says. While she talks she will become closer to you with kino escalation and will want to have sex with you more than you know. So don't run your yapper to much let her do most of the talking after your opener. |
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Nectar
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| Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 6:24 pm Post subject: |
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Awesome post mate!
Good advice
Cheers |
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GunWitch2
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| Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 1:21 am Post subject: |
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scuglass
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| GunWitch2 wrote: | | Good Job |
Why do you continue to bring posts from 6months plus back to life.... Getting your post count up with useless shit like this is annoying and just pushes current threads down the list. |
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The night fox
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| Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 8:22 pm Post subject: |
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| Thanks, i was ging crazy trying to create a DHV story! |
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DeBossmanNL
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| Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 9:13 pm Post subject: |
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| scuglass wrote: | | GunWitch2 wrote: | | Good Job |
Why do you continue to bring posts from 6months plus back to life.... Getting your post count up with useless shit like this is annoying and just pushes current threads down the list. |
He might be doing it for the "new guys" like his subject says...
(yeah i need the 30 posts before i can make a topic...) |
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Selective
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| Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 9:26 pm Post subject: thanks |
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straight and to the point.
thanks |
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johnnyonly
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Thanx...i've been using this to DHV,
I have a ugly duct tape wallet, many punks carry them... mine has a story. I thought this would come across as a DLV, to disqualify myself in a bait-hook-reel-release.. but when she goes "awwe" i think otherwise.
Tell me why this works or why it doesnt?
I used to date this girl, Faerie, I really liked her, and she loved me. She was committed and monogamous. I wasnt, i still dated and slept with other girls. While she was true.
She once made vegan asian dinner and decorated her house in theme for me... Now, i can't even talk about it, but looking back she was such an awsome girlfriend...i never told her how horrible i was, but i didnt stop seeing other girls, nor dated her exclusivly...Out of guilt i was extra sweet and planned romantic occasions. Once, in the summer, she made me a duct tape wallet, because when we met i was totally a punk. I still have the wallet to remember her and how it used to be.
See, she committed suicide before graduating Pre-med. I feel horrible about it. I was the closest one to her, and she shouldn't have trusted me... I confessed to her headstone, but it's doenst make it feel any better... |
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Crossed
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| Posted: Tue Jun 03, 2008 10:12 pm Post subject: |
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| johnnyonly wrote: |
Tell me why this works or why it doesnt?
I used to date this girl, Faerie, I really liked her, and she loved me. She was committed and monogamous. I wasnt, i still dated and slept with other girls. While she was true.
She once made vegan asian dinner and decorated her house in theme for me... Now, i can't even talk about it, but looking back she was such an awsome girlfriend...i never told her how horrible i was, but i didnt stop seeing other girls, nor dated her exclusivly...Out of guilt i was extra sweet and planned romantic occasions. Once, in the summer, she made me a duct tape wallet, because when we met i was totally a punk. I still have the wallet to remember her and how it used to be.
See, she committed suicide before graduating Pre-med. I feel horrible about it. I was the closest one to her, and she shouldn't have trusted me... I confessed to her headstone, but it's doenst make it feel any better... |
Im thinking maybe that makes you seem like too much of an asshole for her, pretty much in general don't talk about getting around with other girls (sad relationship stories have worked for me once or twice, but stories with ex-girlfriends that make me seem like what I pretty much am doesn't work for me) |
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Ezoghoul
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Just a quick question 
How do you get the preselection switch if you do not mention girls? Just by showing that you are not needy? |
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SKY007
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| Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:56 pm Post subject: |
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sorry but how the hell do you think a story about death is going to make you pickup a girl???
you think she's going to fuck you out of misery?? or what???
stories about accidents/blood/death/pain are not helpful!!
(or are you using this on the weird punk/gothic girls or something??) |
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Orann
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| Ezoghoul wrote: | Just a quick question
How do you get the preselection switch if you do not mention girls? Just by showing that you are not needy? |
instead of outright mentioning them, slip them into stories as if by accident. Telling your story as if you were telling it to an old friend, who would know all of the girls is one way of doing it.
I.e; instead of "I went to the beach with some friends"
you say:
"I went to the beach with Katie and Jess"
I have to say, this is not my prefered way of doing it because it can seem a bit obvious if you dont get your vocal pacing and tonality down. (To do this, you need to speak slowly and speed up slightly in 'uninteresting' parts of conversation. make sure to speed up a tiny bit when mentoning girls, so you give off the vibe that it's not so important that they are there).
You can do it in other ways, such as adding elements to your stories that makes it a requirement for you to mention that you were with other girls.
It can be a bit tricky, and I'd be able to help your out more if you gave me a specific DHV to help you tweak with it, but that's the general idea.
A last example:
"I went to lunch with a friend and they did...." <- Bad.
"I went to lunch with a friend of mine today and she ..." <- Better
Subtle hints like that WILL get picked up by girls. I've even had girls stop me in the middle of stories to ask about the fact that there were girls there, when it really didnt matter (And you tell them this. Make sure to act like having girls around is no big deal). |
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Sevencircles
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| Orann wrote: | | Ezoghoul wrote: | Just a quick question
How do you get the preselection switch if you do not mention girls? Just by showing that you are not needy? |
instead of outright mentioning them, slip them into stories as if by accident. Telling your story as if you were telling it to an old friend, who would know all of the girls is one way of doing it.
I.e; instead of "I went to the beach with some friends"
you say:
"I went to the beach with Katie and Jess"
I have to say, this is not my prefered way of doing it because it can seem a bit obvious if you dont get your vocal pacing and tonality down. (To do this, you need to speak slowly and speed up slightly in 'uninteresting' parts of conversation. make sure to speed up a tiny bit when mentoning girls, so you give off the vibe that it's not so important that they are there).
You can do it in other ways, such as adding elements to your stories that makes it a requirement for you to mention that you were with other girls.
It can be a bit tricky, and I'd be able to help your out more if you gave me a specific DHV to help you tweak with it, but that's the general idea.
A last example:
"I went to lunch with a friend and they did...." <- Bad.
"I went to lunch with a friend of mine today and she ..." <- Better
Subtle hints like that WILL get picked up by girls. I've even had girls stop me in the middle of stories to ask about the fact that there were girls there, when it really didnt matter (And you tell them this. Make sure to act like having girls around is no big deal). |
I became very interested in a girl 2 months. Talking about other girls I am meeting and have met (sometimes in a very explicit way )seems to increase her interest in some way. She often ask me about the girl I am dating etc.
This makes me go further and further away from the ljbf section and more and more kino is happenening every time we meet.
She has a lot of feelings for ex (the only guy she ever had sex with) still to say the leasm, but a funny thing happened when me, her ex. and a couple of her friends were talking recently
She said that I find a girl every time I go out and often after less then a minute. Her ex said that he did indeed find a hot girl after 30 seconds the last time he want out and he described everything in detail.
When I first started to meet this girl I contacted her on the phone or on msn almost as often as she contacted me but after a few weeks she is the only one contacting me.
It shall be mentioned that she is extremely picky when it comes to guys and at least 1200 guys have tried to chat her up in her life (she is 22) and failed.
Only one guy have had the honor to have sex with her so far and extremely few have frenchkissed her.
I donīt know if my method is effective when it comes to these girls in general but it seems to work pretty good in this case. |
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chi
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 6:15 pm Post subject: |
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| don't mention other girls out of the blue...just....dont. I mean I only do that when what I'm trying to say ljbf or if we're specifically talking about that. |
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Stetson
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| Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 7:47 pm Post subject: |
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I kinda disagree on all that "Don't mention other girls at all" crap.
You can tell the girl about other girls, especially with a C&F attitude.. Actually, you can tell them funny stories about other girls... You can tell them crazy stories about other girls...
You can say anything as long as you have good voice tonality, body language and most importantly, pass shit tests where the girl tests if you are full of crap, or if your frame is easily walked over.
Canned stuff is just to point you in the right direction and routines are just a spice to your gaming.
Thats what I say, good luck  |
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