slyder2412
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 Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 8:52 am Post subject: Day 1 TOMORROW..how did i do/what should i do? |
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Hey what's up guys? I met this chick at a frat party one day a few months back. We just hit it off and conversation was effortless(rarely happens now a days)...religion/philosophy tangents ...stuff i think are always interesting.
If i left...came back and another guy was talking to him, i would blow him out simply by saying hey to her and she'd immediately get back into convo with me. We were drunk...but there was almost non stop kino as we spoke to each other.
By chance i walk into 7/11 to buy cups for beer pong and i see her there, i pretend like "oh damn you look familiar" then said "oh yeah, some TKE party awhile back"
We basically hit off our somewhat sort conversation as i was only going to go in and back out to buy shit...DHV a little by saying i may be going to amsterdam to visit some friends, she's going to spain to study at some point..blah.
So i KNEW i wouldn't go twice w/o getting her number so i said (maybe afc)..."give me your number"..."you were chill as hell last time but i guess i forgot to ask". She began telling me she was SO busy with school/work, but then slips in "oh i lied! tuesdays and weekends i'm free" in which case i responded with "wow you're already lying to me, jesus"(kinda lame..w/e)
So this was maybe Monday this week...i then gave her a quick ring on Friday..
me: Hey Janelle?
Hb: who's this
Me: brendan, and i gotta admit that musical ringtone is so over used now a days...if you had some pink floyd or zepplin i wouldn't mind but w/e
hb: blah
Me: you free on sunday?
Hb: yes
Me: Lets see...i may be going home for a second this weekend but i should be back on campus at around 8ish....i'm not sure yet but i'll let you know
Hb: blah(cool...ok..sounds good..forgot.)
Me: i'm gonna get going but i'll give u a call then, take care
Hb: ok bye or w/e
SO that was my setup...tried to act somewhat humerous but basically wanted to get to the point and not linger.
Now besides for my evaluation on how i set up that day 1....there's almost NOTHING to do on campus. There's a good restaurant close by(but i'm not sure their hours on sundays yet). So if they are close i gotta think of something else...as i DO NOT want to say "so , what do you wanna do?" as that's not leading her.
IF it is by chance open...truthfully i don't have the cash to pay for both of us...but then again that's AFC to pay for her company. So how should i go about letting her know that i don't intend on paying for her to....i mean she has TWO jobs...i have none atm. Any ideas?
People may say "play a game and the stakes are who pays for dinner" but i don't HAVE the money so haha, that's not possible. Please some thoughts...date is for tomorrow and she's an interesting girl so i don't wanna be boring. THanks for reading!
BTW! She has a boyfriend...but even mirroring my kino to her in 7/11...giving me her number...even going on the date doesn't seem to show that cares she has one. I mean seriously...if she pulls the "i have a boyfriend line" and i simply can't get around that and close...i'm going to tell her that i have no intention on being friends so sorry. |
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