I'm 17 years old and I've been dating this girl sense September 12, it's now September 21. So it hasn't been that long but let me begin.

When I started talking to this girl I was talking to my buddy about her and he told me not to talk to this girl because she is a "Whore". My buddy places on the hockey team and he said that his whole hockey team got with her and it took a matter of 3 days or even hours. They were talking about how she is a "whore" and she was "easy".

I've only been dating her for a little bit but I really like her and I have a lot of feeling's for her.

My problem is that if she was such a "whore" then why haven't I had sex with her yet?

I hang out with her pretty much everyday, Her parents love me so much. Her parents even let me sleep over at her house twice.

When I was sleeping over at her house in the same bed cuddling we never had sex. The only thing I have done with her was finger her(once).

What am I doing wrong?
Why haven't I had sex with her yet?

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2 things could be at play.

First, if you're cuddling without fucking, that's a mistake on your part.

Second, if you're 17, and your buddies are 17, there's a high probability that she didn't fuck any of them, although maybe she messed around or something with one or some of them.

An old joke goes what's the difference between a bitch and a whore? Whore fucks everybody at the party, bitch fucks everybody at the party but me.

If you like the chick, don't worry what anybody else says.

If she's had the cock of half the hockey team her name will of been spread around the school quite a while ago

If she's making you wait before fucking you then she sounds like a good one in my book

I'm willing to bet at worst she's probably had a kiss with a few of them, maybe one has had a fondle, no more then that

Unless the making you wait bit is because she feels guilty for being a whore in the very recent past.

Honestly, how will you ever know?

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

Every school and college in the Western world has stories about girls who fucked the entire Football/Baseball/Hockey team. Maybe one in ten thousand did. Your friend is talking nonsense, probably because he's jealous. If she is such a whore she would have been giving your BJ's and taking it up the ass the first time you shared a bed together.

This is why you haven't had sex yet. Tone down the cuddling and mushy-mushy feelings. She may be 17 but she still wants a bad boy.

- Be more aloof, even while you're dating. You must come across as a challenge.

- Talk about sex. Ask her if she's a virgin. Ask her what she likes in bed. She may react like this at first but I guarantee it will help her feel more comfortable sexually around you.

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Okay, realistically, if you aren't having regular sexual contact with her, then you aren't in a relationship. You are her orbiter. So, do you make out a lot at least?

Are you escalating physically? Are you getting IOI's? What did you do when you were in bed together? Anything? Why do you think it's relevant that her parents like you?! Do you think that's going to help you build attraction? It sounds like you are trying to play the "Nice guy / boyfriend" angle and it's not what she's looking for.

Next line of questioning. You are pretty young.. have you had sex before? Do you know how to make a girl orgasm? Did she orgasm when you fingered her? The more information we have, the easier it will be for us to give you good advice.

Lastly, as people said above, don't listen to gossip.

-Wolf

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First dude, you need ease up on the love-cuddling feelings. Your 17 and the odds of you marrying this girl is in the millions. This is your time to learn about yourself and what you want in relationships. Be curious. trust me, she probably is wondering why you arent making moves on her.

I wouldnt worry about the hockey team thing. just cause she may have kissed one and given another a BJ doesnt mean shit. You want a girl that little experienced anyways, much more enjoyable in my opinion

Bottom line: Make a move on her, save te cuddling for the aftermath, dont worry abut the hockey team.

She just slept over last night again. It doesn't seem to be escalating, I only seem to be fingering her. I do have a lot of experience of sex but idk how to escalate this one to sex. She told me today when we were in my car that she doesn't like giving BJ's, she said she just prefers sex. So I don't know how to escate. Yes I have just been playing the nice guy/boyfriend.

When we are the in the same bed together we just lay down and cuddle. I'll be rubbing her back or something and moving closer and closer to her vagina.

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I will try this thanks man.

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Why you've not had sex is something for you to answer, to be honest.

Also, college/high-school is a place where rumors spread like fire. While there is a chance that there might be a certain degree of truth to the social tag given to her, it is quite possible that it might just be a baseless rumor.

In any case, it is quite upsetting that while at one point you claim you have feelings for her, at the other you intend to manipulate her social tag to your advantage (read: having sex). It is quite similar to you wanting her to be a whore.

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I'm 18 and 3 months ago I started dating a girl with massive value at the school. I have a lot of female friends, some that would probably suck my dick right now with minimal gaming.

These female friends of mine have shown jealousy towards my girlfriend ever since we dated. One of them even went as far as to say "dude, I care about you and I know that this girl is not good for you. she has slept with countless guys at school!"

Fact is she's only dated 2. She dated the first one when she was in 8th grade so I doubt anything happened and she dated the other one last year, judging by how I see him he probably never got further than a kiss! Yes she wasn't a virgin when I found her, she lost it in January with a guy that no-one at school even knows about. It was painful and she vowed to abstain from sex for a long time... LMAo! Until I came through.

Jealousy gives birth to lies and false realities and that is what you have been fed by your so-called "friend"

On the sex part, I honestly have no idea what's up with your situation...

Has she refused to go further than a fondle or do you not have the comfortability and confidence to go past that? Have you built sexual tension with her? What's up dude, why haven't you hit that already?

P.S. I don't officially call a girl "My Girlfriend" until I've slept with her. There is just a sense of officiality that I get from laying a girl that I want to be my girlfriend. Maybe that's just me.

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To be honest I just haven't tried to go farther then fingering her. What are some ways to build sexual tension

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