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PostPosted: Sat Jun 21, 2014 7:11 pm 
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Ok I THINK she's muslim due to a very few pics of her with a headscarf on and some comments on her FB. When I met her originally she had normal English student clothes on and spoke without accent but she's obviously from a middle eastern country.

Date with her tomorrow. Normally I'd go in, hug and kiss on cheek to start and hold hands soon after (very physical). When I said let's meet at 1 she said she had to ask her mum, go I'm guessing she's very close with her and not gonna be too much of a bad girl.

She sends a lot of selfies on snapchat to me and people, wears make up, has eyebrows plucked... a good looking girl and she knows it, so not I'd typically expect from a muslim girl (to be showing her sexuality).

Can I still be as sexual or do I need to tone it down?
Anything else I need to bear in mind?


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 21, 2014 7:24 pm 
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My thoughts (take them or leave 'em).

There's a saying in business "Dress for the job you want not the one you have."

I'm guessing the same applies to your sexily dressed date. And no I don't mean she's a hooker. She's dressing for the part she wants ;), and that's more or less one thing and one thing only - sexual stuff

The part about her having to ask her mom if she can go out, is not good logic in my book. She's probably feeling sexually repressed if anything. Having a strict parent doesn't mean they're close. They could be, but I wouldn't even begin to worry about that at all.


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Talking about explosives and such always seems to be a turn on.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 21, 2014 10:29 pm 
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Okay I have a friend who told me about a Muslim girlfriend he had, and things were going fine, she was a normal girl. However although they really liked each other, she is now in an arranged marriage today, why? Because the parents decided it best to respect the religion and such. they really liked each other and its a shame, he was a white guy of course and Catholic so he didnt agree with the parents idea for their daughter.

Although shes happy now, it is sort of shame, this could be the case with you bro. So I dont know if you want to invest allot of time if you find this out to be the case.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 21, 2014 11:25 pm 
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My thoughts (take them or leave 'em).

There's a saying in business "Dress for the job you want not the one you have."

I'm guessing the same applies to your sexily dressed date. And no I don't mean she's a hooker. She's dressing for the part she wants ;), and that's more or less one thing and one thing only - sexual stuff

The part about her having to ask her mom if she can go out, is not good logic in my book. She's probably feeling sexually repressed if anything. Having a strict parent doesn't mean they're close. They could be, but I wouldn't even begin to worry about that at all.
Sounds pretty reasonable to be honest

Cheers for the advice, I'll treat her like the girl she looks like (normal sexy girl)
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Okay I have a friend who told me about a Muslim girlfriend he had, and things were going fine, she was a normal girl. However although they really liked each other, she is now in an arranged marriage today, why? Because the parents decided it best to respect the religion and such. they really liked each other and its a shame, he was a white guy of course and Catholic so he didnt agree with the parents idea for their daughter.

Although shes happy now, it is sort of shame, this could be the case with you bro. So I dont know if you want to invest allot of time if you find this out to be the case.

Fair enough. I'm not looking for a girlfriend so if she got whisked away by her mum (assuming we kept seeing each other) I wouldn't mind too much


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 22, 2014 9:33 pm 
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make sure your balls do not hang from the walls of her dad"s home..i live in an arab country my parents are italians but we settled her this muslims girls are the toughest..i have observed talking about sex with them before you isolate them will definately not get you laid they tend to pull away.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2014 6:22 am 
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Update:

Went out and had one of the dates I've ever had. She was hot as hell. Didn't get sexy until later on but when I did it was easy to transition from kissing on the cheek/mouth to snogging to feeling her tits, sucking her neck and rubbing her pussy through her jeans

Thanks to the bro who said she's like any other girl.


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Bro,

No girl wants to be treated like some pure innocent angel.. I don't care what her religion is. This is where guys go wrong with girls who are virgins.. They try and treat them like some innocent creature and it turns the girl off. They want to feel normal.

Don't change your game; she's going out with you because she likes you..And who you were to her online is a reflection of who you are going to be to her when you meet her. So thats what she wants..

Don't change a thing.. Let her adapt.

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Do what you want I think :)

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 25, 2014 2:27 pm 
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As a muslim guy, relax and don't even put religion into play, it will just remind her of whatever and make her more shy/defensive..imagine dating a heavily religious catholic girl and you keep popping the topic of jesus not cool eh? :) I've dated several muslim girls and I can tell you, they are like any other girls with a kinky side you won't even fuckin imagine..Just game it right. Also she seems to be a little bit reserved regarding her asking her mom and stuff so I'd say don't overly lay a bad boy attitude or she will think its bad news..respect her like you'd do to any other girl and enjoy it ;) Good luck bro

P.S: topics of bombs and terrorism will lead to heavy debates, you can use em as a light neg but don't do it if you feel you'll come out as racist (build enough comfort)


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