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Probably because they have low self-esteem. People that latch onto such a fringe in-group have identity issues that they are trying to sort out.
lol, sounds ironic when posted on a forum dedicated to a fringe sub/counter culture doesn't it.
Also you may want to consider tribal theory here, chances are if your dressed in say a dark button-up shirt, jeans, etc... very clean with only a little peacocking... your not going to
seem as similiar to a punk/goth girl as say if you were dressed similiarly to my avatar. If the girl wants to visit and/or join your 'tribe' it makes it 100x easier then if she doesn't like your 'tribe'.