So I was getting my haircut by this lady who is smokin hot and I started running some game on her and it seemed to be going really well. In the beginning we were talking about lifting because we are both fitness nuts and she was telling me about her friend who broke the state record for deadlift. She said she had to tell him about me because I am a competitive powerlifter as well. Then I started running game and it went real well. I asked her what she would buy first if I gave her a million dollar tip and she said she woudn't buy fake boobs so we started talking about boobs for a while then blah blah blah...

Afterwards she said she would have to facebook me (not mentioning her powerlifter friend). So 2 days go by and I hear nothing from her then I get a TEXT from her saying she couldn't find me that I should look for her so I did. Now, I didn't give her my number so she had to look up my file at work in order to get it.

So is this chick trying to get down or is she just trying to get me and her friend in contact for training purposes?

Some reasons why I think she is trying to get down:
She was pulling my hair and rubbing my head and saying things like "omg I'm like giving you a head massage right now" and "you gotta leave enough length so you can pull it (seemed sexually charged)" Also the things i said above about fb and texting.

Some reasons why I think she's not trying to get down:
She knows I am a NCAA strength coach and wants to hook me up with her friend. She's married (mentioned husband once). What do you guys think?

So I want to get her out without being direct about sex so she can have some plausible deniability (i just went out to ...) then be aggressive about escalating sexually once we are out. Any ideas on what to invite her to do that doesn't sound like we're just meeting to have sex?

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Until I read the last two paragraphs I would have said she was totally trying to get down, there were several good signs as you pointed out.

I think she is trying to meet up with you, and like you say at this point there is plausible deniability with her contacting you, "I was hooking him up with my friend."

I'd meet her at the gym or go running with her, then see if you can bounce.

I'd point out she could be seeking approval from other males to make her feel like she's still hot, although the last time it crossed my mind a cougar was doing that with me I still slept with her and she's in the process of leaving the guy she was living with now.

when in doubt, assume its on...worst comes to worst she'll pay for a few meals and such. go for it

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totally man, it's on. I'd say she's definitely into you, but actually getting a married woman in bed can be hard. Certainly not impossible, but slightly harder than single girls.

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