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aim2pleezdj
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 Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 6:08 am Post subject: Conversation topics to build comfort |
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I was wondering what conversation topics I could use to build comfort with a girl who has never had any experience with boyfriends or guys before.
I tried the whole what were u like in high school, but shes kinda square so she seemed embarassed when I hit topics like that. And when I talk about relationships she shys away because shes never been in one and doesnt want to say it openly.
She doesnt really enjoy gossiping about other people either.
Does anyone have any suggestions on wtf to even talk about?
she likes animals, food etc. But I cant think of any subject to talk to her about that would build more deep comfort. |
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snapyourfingers
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| Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 7:33 am Post subject: |
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Shouldn't be too hard if she likes animals. Just say something "I was thinking about getting me a pet, but I can't decide whether to get a hamster or a rabbit. What do you think?" Tell her about the time your friend's rabbit escaped from It's cage and bit through the telephone line (true story; it was my rabbit  ) or when someone's dog died on the same day he was holding his birthday. Ofcourse these are just examples of stories, if you have your own experiences with animals you can use those if you don't want to lie to her. You can also make her tell stories too, so that you're both investing in the conversation. Hope it helps! |
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aim2pleezdj
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| Posted: Mon Apr 21, 2008 8:00 am Post subject: |
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| haha how do i Demonstrate higher value with those stories though? |
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burriquin
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How you bravely fought a crazy huge rotwailer who was going to attack your girlfriend? (you don't want to buy an agressive dog so you don't have these problems)  
Maybe you could talk (now seriusly) on how you took care of your previus pet went is was going to die, or that you don't want to have a big pet (like a dog) because you love to travel overseas and can't bring it with you very easily or something like that 
Hope helps, and that my english is not very bad ^_^
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| Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2008 12:25 am Post subject: |
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I find with girls that are a bit closed off the more playful stories about yourself that relate to something about her will help her open up.
Any story about yourself can be tailored to fit the girls your talking to.
i have a DHV story about how i went on a tour through caves in kentucky and at the end of the tour we where in a cavern where the tour guide said we had to be quiet or the bats would go nutty. So i started whistleing but the guide never knew who it was and the bats went crazy.
i open it with - that (bracelet, ring, glasses, outfit, hairstyle (almost anything on her) reminds me of one i seen on a tour guide that lead us through caves in kentucky...it was soo funny!
or something similar. But not matter the story it relates to her by choice of accessories, enough stories and she will open up.
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| Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 3:08 am Post subject: |
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| good question, im in the same boat. shes a shy person and im her first boyfriend so i need some good topics to talk about. or even some examlpe stories would be awesome |
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aim2pleezdj
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| I have unlocked the secret to SHY vagina. thank you all for your help |
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-Mystic-
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| Posted: Thu Apr 24, 2008 9:36 pm Post subject: |
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| aim2pleezdj wrote: | | I have unlocked the secret to SHY vagina. thank you all for your help |
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aim2pleezdj
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 5:54 am Post subject: |
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NVM i think I just fucked myself over again.
But before that.... I just became the aggressor and took the lead with the shy girl. And basically was like not taking no for an answer but not being a douche about it at the same time.haha |
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I think that stories from childhood are great. Share one, then she'll tell you a couple.
If you build attraction and see that girl is shy/not telling many DHV about herself/scared of you because you are so great and perfect - you should tell some stories about how you felt embarassed, scared, in love etc when you done sth when you were 3-8 years old etc.
It is also chance to do many jokes, even for her.
For example, I am very tall and I work out sometime, and when I start "When I was little brat..." girls interrupts me "Were you?  "
I love it. |
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