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PostPosted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 7:01 am 
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COCKY & FUNNY TECHNIQUE EXPLAINED


Cocky means challenging. (Involves: innuendos, double meanings, and subtlety).Younger women are not as intuitive as older women. It's a matter of experience. Most women in their 20's absorb this because they're challenged by even the roughest humor. As women get older, they expect a lot more subtle, evocative conversation. Think "stand-up philosopher" not "stand-up comedian."

Cocky & Funny WILL work on older women, you just have to refine it (dramatically). You have to be topical, timely, and have a great finesse (fineness, elegance, and flair) when giving it. If you're a student of human behavior, this is definitely a must use strategy for you!You really have to size up the woman you're going to use this on, otherwise, you might not be able to recover. It's not IMPOSSIBLE to learn...

Being "cocky" is a matter of degree. If you're too cocky, you'll look like a jerk. If you're not cocky enough, you'll look insecure. It's really a fine line.

Adding "humor" softens it, taking it slightly further than thought otherwise. Humor is not an absolute necessity. Once you start cocky & funny, you have to keep it up. Never let your guard down. Always remember, women are better at this game than men are. Never let your guard down.

Here's how it works:

You're "busting on her," in English that's, "challenging her and calling her on every detail. Example: You and her start talking, your attitude should be that you control the situation, not her. You could say, "Yeah, you're cute, but I'm used to dating younger women," or "Gee, what an interesting color for a dress."

The point is, you're not complimenting her, you're challenging her. She might come back with, "Are you saying you like the color of my dress or not?" Your come back, "Well, I'm not sure yet, let me look at it on you for awhile."

The point is to keep her guessing. She might ask you direct questions like, "What do you do for a living?" Respond with a vague answer. Don't respond with, "Oh, I'm a lab tech," or something equally boring. Instead say, "Oh, I work with chemicals, like the ones in your hair dye.

"You want to do all of this with a straight face."

You can ask her direct questions like, "So, what do you do for a living?" If she says something that sounds "big time," bust on her. Let's say that she says, "Oh, I'm a corporate attorney with a large law firm in the city."

You say, "Oh, that's nice. What do you want to do when you grow up?" Be absolutely serious here. Don't let her know you're making a joke, otherwise her radar will go off and she'll sense weakness from you and that you're being a jackass.

If she says something that's less impressive, don't bust on her, she might be sensitive about it. Like if she says, "Well, I'm working my way through school as a waitress," LEAVE IT ALONE! If you bust on her here, she'll be offended, not challenged.

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Thank you for posting this. Took me long to find out about this, but you packed it tight here.

If I could other word for Cocky & Funny, it would be "Hidden defamation".
It´s hard finding the right attitude when doing this first times, serious - funny, too cocky - too "soft"..


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Cocky & Funny has worked even better on older women than younger ones in my experience.


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Great post!

Could you also make a post explaining push-pull?

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Okay...

Push / Pull can be found here: push-pull-explained-vt40391.html

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If she says something that's less impressive, don't bust on her, she might be sensitive about it. Like if she says, "Well, I'm working my way through school as a waitress," LEAVE IT ALONE! If you bust on her here, she'll be offended, not challenged.
From what I've experienced when she says something like that she will usually comes across knowing its not impressive, so then I usually compliment her/"build her up" by saying something like "Oh thats good, it must teach you the value of hard work and that money doesn't grow on trees." (Pause....Your thinking.....then a slow smile) "So you must only go out with rich guys???"

This has seemed to work but do you guys think its good?


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