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BlakMagik Member of PUA Forum Joined: 08 Nov 2007 Posts: 122 Location: Sydney Reputation: 42.6 votes: 2	Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 9:24 am    Post subject: #closing.. [NEED HELP] Ok as of recently iv lost all my previous fears i had of approaching - i can confidently approach any set i see.. which is awesome, it truly is. but out of all those sets iv opened to this day since iv embarked on my transformation from AFC, iv never #-closed a set during day-sarging [i have at least #-closed every set thats opened me.. but not the other way round]. for some reason its much easier for me to run game at night [maybe its the atmosphere or the alcohol, who knows?]. its getting to the point where its become extremely frustrating.. i can hold an interesting conversation for at least 4-5mins with a few routines in there [and most of the time even reach social hook-point] but for some reason after that i just get to the point where the conversation is about to die and get scared and eject... WITHOUT CLOSING. i generally just fuck up and say: "well its been really fun talking to you.." and pull out. i think this is because every time iv followed up with "i would love to continue this conversation in the future.." iv never been offered a number so i guess i just gave up on that line. so should i just straight up ask for the number? how do u do this without coming across as though you've picked them up and u genuinely just wanna continue the convo? also how do u know if you've DHV'd enough for her to want to? any tips on this would be highly appreciated..
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Fact PUA Forum Enthusiast Joined: 07 Jan 2008 Posts: 33 Location: USA Reputation: 6.1	Posted: Tue Jan 08, 2008 12:26 pm    Post subject: If 4-5 minutes is as long as you're able to hold them, then perhaps have a routine saved that you don't intend to finish or has no finish at all (somewhat of an exit routine for when things go dull), act as if you got a text message mid routine, take out your phone, look at it, smile and say, "I gotta run." Say your goodbyes and act as if your about to leave but at the last second turn back around with your phone still out as if making a quick decision and tell them to put in their number. Once you're able to hold a set longer, it's often best to get a number more naturally then stick around and talk for another 10 minutes or so just to make it clear that the exchanging of numbers is no big milestone in your mind.
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BlakMagik Member of PUA Forum Joined: 08 Nov 2007 Posts: 122 Location: Sydney Reputation: 42.6 votes: 2	Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2008 1:13 am    Post subject: yeah that sounds good man thanx ill definitely try that out.. iv used the cube quite a few times but never on a HB iv just met in the mall or somethin and i guess thats the easiest excuse to wanna continue a convo later. so i guess i just gotta DO IT now.. ill report back with the results. =]
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