OneManWonder
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 Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 4:10 pm Post subject: Charge's Non Verbal Flirting |
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Hello,
About a month ago I got very interested in non verbal flirting. Its slowly became my favorite way to flirt. I realised very little non verbal flirting is explained in the seduction community. So for the past month Ive taken it on myself to understand this. I have a moleskin just FULL of notes that ive taken. Im just going to give you a small tip, I want you guys to work on this or help me add to my understanding of nonverbal flirting.
*Most of non verbal flirting is in face expressions and some hand gestures
*It has to be something out of the norm so the girl can pick up on it
*It cannot be creepy
*Never I mean EVER use a wink, haahaa, its lame and unoriginal
*Unlike spoken word, body language can signal acceptance without being too obviouse
Throw and Go
The point of this is just like a throw and go neg, you throw it and move on like you dont care. Be congruent with this. When you walk into starbucks notice a hot babe out of the corner of your eye. Watch your body language, do not open your body language to her. Rather, close her off and just throw a face expression at her and continue what you were doing (which is probably walking up to the bistra's). Later you can open her now since you have made a connection or most of the times they approach me after I shoot them a look.
Why this works
Imagine James Bond. Hes a busy man, he wants a pomogranite passion tea at starbucks before he proceeds to save the world from evil. While walking in to starbucks he notices a beautiful woman; someone who would be nice to speak to, if only he had time. No big deal, theres tons of ladies in the world. He throws her a facial expression, like hey your pretty big whoop, and continues on his way never thinking about the woman again.
In a nutshell throwing a facial expression and not approaching demonstrates higher value in many ways. If you get good at this the girls will approach you or find something lame to say to you to start a convo.
Something funny. I was at church with my parents one sunday and I was thinking I need to practice non verbal flirting with a situation where neither of us could speak to eachother anyways. This would be the ultimate way to practice. We stand for the choir. While watching the girls sing (they are all my age 20yrs old) I notice one keeps looking at me. BOOM this is perfect. I amlost feel bad for them now, about four girls in the choir flirt with me while they are singing. What I realized is the LOVE it too, they are always tyring to hold back a laugh. |
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