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blondguy
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 Posted: Thu Oct 29, 2009 4:11 pm Post subject: Changing Targets? |
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So I k-closed one HB, but over the course of the night I actually felt like I was making a connection with another of her friends in the 3-set. Is there any way, when I next see them again, I can switch targets? Can I LJBF the original target, or should I just straight up game the second HB and just get some jealousy going in my favour?
Advice much appreciated as always. |
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Laezy
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It seems to me you're not really sure which one of these two girls you want the most, am i right?
You're asking if you can "switch targets" and yes of course you can, you're allowed to change your mind.
If you change your mind and decide you want the second HB. Sounds like you wanna game the second HB but still wanna keep your chances with the first HB. Which again means you can't really decide which girl you want, which is bad.
An alpha knows what he wants and goes after it.
Its pretty much self explanatory. |
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blondguy
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| Posted: Thu Oct 29, 2009 8:49 pm Post subject: |
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It's not that I don't know what I want exactly.
I'd be willing to lose my chance with the original one I k-closed if it meant I could f-close the second. But if it would be awkward and difficult to switch, then I'm happy to f-close the first and stay friends with the second. |
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Laezy
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Ah gotcha.
I understand, and both your alternatives are fully possible to do, it's just that one is gonna be a little harder than the other.
Of course it would be hard and awkward to switch, come on dude, you k-closed her and then you move on and game her friend. Hard, but not impossible, just make sure you go for it 100%, because if you do, there will most likely be no turning back with the first girl. But still, impossible is nothing and the only one that can really know if it's worth the risk, is yourself.
Follow your instinct and go for it 100% is all the advice i can give. |
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BadolzoN
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| Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 7:15 pm Post subject: |
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I would LJBF the first Target and go for the 2nd.
I'd create a jealousy plotline by having Target #2 (Your new target, the one you want to be with) put on your hat, or your necklace, or an item of yours, so that Target #1 (Original), sees that, and she gets jealous, which, in turn, builds social proof.
It's complicated, but I've done it before.
What you do is, get 2 girls to like you, and have them jealous over you.
I've done this with the cheerleaders in my school Vs the Poms.
Like, during a football game, I went to the Poms, and talked to 2-3 HBs I knew from there, and then when I left, they later told me how the Cheerleaders (9-10 girls) went up to them and told them to not talk to me in a rude way.
By doing this, they were both battling for me, creating instant social proof for me.
Not only do you create value for the 2 people (Or two whole sets like I did), but you create value for the people AROUND YOU.
People see girls arguing over you, you're the man.
Or, what you could do is game girl #2 (New one) and see if she accepts it, if she does, just stop talking to the original girl. Easy as that. Just be friends with her.
It would only be awkward if girl #2 had to jepordize her friendship over you, then it's VERY hard.
I had gamed this one girl PERFECTLY, and her boyfriend who dumped her a day later found out, and he combatted me, and she took his side.
Know why? Because she's been with him MUCH longer than me (I only knew her for like 2-3 days/ gamed her)
This is what I like to call a special circumstance, never get into this.
I KNEW this would happen like a day before I gamed her. I knew there was a posibillity for him to linger around and ruin my game.
Don't make any of these a problem for you. |
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BadolzoN
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| Posted: Fri Oct 30, 2009 7:18 pm Post subject: |
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Oh, and by "arguing" or "battling" over you, I mean trying to hit on you and in a sense "game you" aka when you get into lock-in and it looks like the girls are gaming you, not the other way around.
Although, getting them to hate each other isn't a bad idea, because then you wouldn't have to worry about the original girl lingering around and being jealous/ ruining it all the time. |
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...the biggest problem youre going to have is the 2nd girl (the preferred one) not wanting to be with you out of respect for her friend.
| Quote: | | Although, getting them to hate each other isn't a bad idea, because then you wouldn't have to worry about the original girl lingering around and being jealous/ ruining it all the time. |
I would not try to get 2 friends to fight, this would mean NOT leaving them better than before you met them. Besides, why would you want to ATTEMPT to destroy a friendship by getting them to hate each other purely so that you can get laid....that is low, like SCUM.
Blondguy,
Maybe the 1st girl isnt that into you and wouldnt mind her friend (2nd girl) hooking up if with you if she could see that you were both genuinely interested in each other. |
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dog youi
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| Posted: Tue Nov 03, 2009 3:35 am Post subject: Re: Changing Targets? |
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[quote="blondguy"]So I k-closed one HB, but over the course of the night I actually felt like I was making a connection with another of her friends in the 3-set. Is there any way, when I next see them again, I can switch targets? Can I LJBF the original target, or should I just straight up game the second HB and just get some jealousy going in my favour?
you can target switch at any time but you have to know your game.. any girl you like throw negs, and the talk to the obstacle and ignore the girl you like, so that way she wants to be involved |
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BadolzoN
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| Posted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 2:10 pm Post subject: Re: Changing Targets? |
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[quote="dog youi"] | blondguy wrote: | So I k-closed one HB, but over the course of the night I actually felt like I was making a connection with another of her friends in the 3-set. Is there any way, when I next see them again, I can switch targets? Can I LJBF the original target, or should I just straight up game the second HB and just get some jealousy going in my favour?
you can target switch at any time but you have to know your game.. any girl you like throw negs, and the talk to the obstacle and ignore the girl you like, so that way she wants to be involved |
I’m not trying to tell him how to be moral and do it the “right way” I’m telling him how to do it the best way. After all, when you’re talking to most girls just to sleep with them, that’s seduction. And it’s so seductive to be cold and corruptive. 
I know what you mean, but this is the best option I could factor out.
There's probably many more "moral" options.
I'm a bit evil, though. |
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