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holdem nl
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 Posted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 5:10 am Post subject: call back |
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OK..so i dont much of a problem number closing a girl, its afterwards thats a problem
i never actually call back as I find it would be too awkward..does anyone else get that? or is calling a random girl you met the last night ok for most guys |
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NeoGeo
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| Posted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 7:51 am Post subject: |
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| What's the point of number closing if you don't call her? |
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Rye Lee
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| Posted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 8:28 am Post subject: |
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| I don't have a problem if I had a good connection with her, but although I'm able to number close and attract girls, I don't get truly attracted to them unless they've got something different and it doesn't happen as often as I'd like. In that case, yeah, I have issues calling girls back and I'm not sure whether or not to call this girl I number closed last night because of it. I think I'll post my first field report ever if you want to check it out and maybe have some advice for me. |
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Anubiz
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| Posted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 8:36 am Post subject: |
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Best bet is to call them, make it brief (2-5 minutes) and say you have to go. Then simply say well give me a call sometime and we'll grab Lunch, Dinner, Movie ect.
This way, if she does call back it's an IOI, if not well it's wood.
Done and done. |
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Rye Lee
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| Posted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 9:19 am Post subject: |
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| Anubiz wrote: | Best bet is to call them, make it brief (2-5 minutes) and say you have to go. Then simply say well give me a call sometime and we'll grab Lunch, Dinner, Movie ect.
This way, if she does call back it's an IOI, if not well it's wood.
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You also run the risk of her getting cold feet. You have anxiety over calling her and you've been training yourself, trying to master your game and you still get it, so why not her? I had a girl several weeks ago that I made an amazing connection with and I even had a week long case of oneitis because I was so into this girl. Problem is, when I met her I didn't have anything to put her number on, or write with, or my cell and I didn't think to call it with hers. So I gave her my number, put it in her cell and she double checked it with me later and told me how if she never saw me again it would make her very sad. So I told her to call me the next day and we'd hang out. Never got a call from her and its been over 2 weeks now. So, I caution waiting on girls to call you. |
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Anubiz
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| Posted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 9:23 am Post subject: |
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You also run the risk of her getting cold feet. You have anxiety over calling her and you've been training yourself, trying to master your game and you still get it, so why not her? I had a girl several weeks ago that I made an amazing connection with and I even had a week long case of oneitis because I was so into this girl. Problem is, when I met her I didn't have anything to put her number on, or write with, or my cell and I didn't think to call it with hers. So I gave her my number, put it in her cell and she double checked it with me later and told me how if she never saw me again it would make her very sad. So I told her to call me the next day and we'd hang out. Never got a call from her and its been over 2 weeks now. So, I caution waiting on girls to call you. |
In the end if she is interested she will call back. I've ran into those problems. My move is somewhat of a risky one but if she does call. She's hooked. |
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Envy
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I am not a big fan of giving her the option to call back. In my experiences it leaves to much to chance. I like to set it then and there on the phone or make so I have the hand in planning. So in breakdown:
1. You don't have to worry and wonder about if she is calling back
2. The call is on my terms and I have the advantage
3 You show DHV by being in control of the situation
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