lury
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 Posted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 7:30 pm Post subject: c-close, but not a g-close. Any help? |
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Hi guys, it would be really nice to hear what you think about this1.
I was at a club with some friends (3 guys and 2 girls) Directly having entered the club I started to try to escalate my social proof. I talked to my "girl friends" (having always them leaning in, and me leaning back) for maybe 15 minutes. Had them laughing and we had fun. I then saw 3 girls I know from earlier, went and talked to them, and we had good fun. Always trying to pay attention about the social proof. I approached 2 sets within 1h, ( 1 of them 4 girls, the other 2 girls) I started to notice serious proximity here. So kept up talking to different people, and having fun!! I wanted to mention these things because I think it might be important regarding my question. Well anyway, to the point! The set with 2 girls, one of them was really hot, 9+. I opened with something about that she shouldn't play with her phone, cause it really makes her look like she's boring!! She responded quite well, so we talked for a while, having a pretty good conversation. I passed a couple of tests, but didn't use c+f that much (mistake I know!!!)Well anyway, then I decided I should excuse myself, proving that I'm willing to walk away, and her looks don't impress me...she was kind of surprised!! I saw her later, when I was with my other 3 girlfriends, and we were laughing and having fun! It was clear that she would have wanted me to come talk some more, Fiddling with her hair, while close to me, and smiling at me etc. But the point is, I know I didn't g-close her at all. She kind of liked me, cuz I had her smiling at me later aswell, from a distance once or twice, and some proximity aswell. (Reason why I didn't talk to her more, simply was because I was with my other friends, and having fun, and didn't have the energy at the time to really pay attention, and make things happend) Then finally I walked up to her and told her I was leaving soon, and just took my phone out, and smiled. She got my point and gave me her number. I called her a coiuple of days later, but she was really weird on the phone, and I failed some tests there I think, so when I asked her what she does at a certain time, (so we could get together then) she gave me some bs about that she can't make it and that she's working...anyway, they were clear white lies. So I thought I'd drop it and move on to the next one! but I'm curious, If you haven't g-closed a girl, only c-closed, and she freaks out over the phone. Is there still something you can do? Would be really interesting to know!! well sorry guys for making it this long, but I thought it would be important to have some details in the story!! Oh yeah and, I did NOT do kino...yes yes, I know!! I should have!! but still kind of new to this, but getting better!! Thanks in advance for pointers.
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Hold on a sec..whats a c-close and what's a g-close?
Anyways, i think that you should've kinoed her, but it was good that through analyzing you realized that yourself plus other things.
I think that maybe there wasn't enough comfort created between you two? According to Mystery, comfort is something that will create a better relationship between you and the girl.
And about that phonecall where she BSed. I think you could have openly stated that you knew she was BSing and that she should make up for it by doing something.
Well those are my observations. |
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| Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 8:08 pm Post subject: |
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First things first... space out your writing a bit more - it's pretty hard on the eyes; you'll get more people reading it and more responses that way (the internet = short attention span).
Well some of sounded great, like when you walked away from her at first, pretty much shows you don't give a damn about her, which is generally a good thing. You got her number too, so thats something.
But you didn't use C+F, which is a state of mind you definitely want to have ingrained in your head at all times - whether you go mad being a cocky comedian or just the occasional cheeky remark, it's a must have. Plus kino is also something you shouldn't have to think about, i.e. "hmm, is it the right time to do some kino escalation yet?' - just bring it to a natural state, unless you're only just starting out in which case you do need to have a checklist in your head.
So she BSed you. I agree with Kingp!n that you should have told her it was obvious BS, but at the same time, it just shows that you can get a number and it doesn't guarantee a date or any of that. |
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