 Posted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 3:22 pm Post subject: Buyers remorse recovery.... |
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ok here's the deal
im talking to this girl for the last week .... and last saturdays i met her in a club HOWEVER we had some fun for an hour or 2 - after she had a arguement with her friend, it was getting little bit boring after that happened ( maybe she felt bad about her friend leaving ).
anyway she kino'd me like crazy .. i negged her on the kino ( hard to get ) i didn't kino enough ( no intermittence or reward ).
i gamed some other girls to make her jaleous + i freezed her out 2 times ......
i played too hard to get ... i think i overdone it....
we just talked into comfort zone and shared stories and information - but i felt we both were tired, our energy level was lowering so i decided to do some cocky/funny stuff and leave the venue with her.
remember for the last hour - i didn't kino her
i freezed her out 2 times
i popped up with 2 other girls ( jaleousy plotlines )
+ her friend left (arguement with her friend )
+ my friend left.
i brought her home and in front of her house we talked a bit and i did some light kino + a warm/cold read for her.
we were standing close and i leaned in as she leaned in to kiss eachother on the cheek - HOWEVER i drank way too much that night and lost control .... i kissed her on the mouth....
1. she accepted it
2. i did some comfort kissing .. no tongue - lips only
3. after 1 minute she started kissing with her tongue ( she started with her tongue)
4. after 2 minutes of kissing i looked her into the eye and she said : this is weird ... i was totally out of control, i shoulda had pulled back and tell her '' oh we need to stop this is going too fast '' instead of that i told her; '' yeah it's weird but what the hell '' and kissed her again.
we kissed for 1 more minute and suddenly she told me she wants to go inside and sleep and she kissed me 3 x on my lips, ( i head home to my own place)
i know i didn't kino enough .... i realized that when i was driving to my place...
however .... !
yesterday she came online on MSN and started talking ... some guys on this forum ( jez . mr.shade etc.) gave me some tips and guided me to.
i told her im bussy and created freeze outs ( 4 minute freez-outs)
1. she seeked rapport constantly
2. i was starting out casual ( casual conversation .. little bit cold and distant)
3. after 15 mins i started being cocky-funny and recovered her to the comfort zone
i talked to her for 3 hours tho .... i created freeze outs with phone calls ( like im really bussy ) because i want to look non-needy. I didn't talk about the kiss but somehow she tried to get rapport ( about the kiss )
after a few minutes of cocky- rapport dodging ( not forced or anything) i told her im bussy and went offline
me : i got to go, i got to study
she : oh ok well im what are you going to do ? im going to to my sister later on
me : studying
me : cya ( i went offline )
she : oh ok byebye ( i was offline already )
i tried to be cold at the end , i ended the conversation before she did.
well iM 100 % sure she had buyers remorse , i try not to think for her and try not to figure out what she thinks but it was so clear on that night. ( i felt it in the vibe)
Today she left me a message..... she is seeking rapport ( in a funny way ) - asking what i have done yesterday etc.
what do you recommend what are your opinions ?
my own opinion = just talk to her and set up a new date .. maybe watching a movie at my place .
HOWEVER i don't want to end in the friendship zone - i didn't kino enough on our date BUT i was sexual-cocky-funny in all conversations. ( push and pull )
Should i give it some time ( wait a few days ?) whats your opinion ?
thnx . peace
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