Business and Boyfriend involved, Need Help

MrSmooth

Hi, this is my first time in the forum, and I am definitely a newbie. Thanks so much to you fellas who are experienced and are helping us new guys along.
I have started a business partnership in a technology business with a definite 10, I have seen her on TV before doing modelling. I have received several IOI's and her talk to me difinitely has a spark of sexuality to it, inuendos to the max sometimes, when she gets excited.
The weird thing is she has a boyfriend, and I have this business with her. I do not just want to bang her(obviously that is what I am trying though), I could stay with this girl for a while.
I am honestly scared of putting the move on with the business and the boyfriend involved.
Basically, I need to know based on this information if it is safe to do this with her. I need to make sure my odds are good before risking so much.
Thanks,
Mr. Smooth

Valence · Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 9:05 pm Post subject:

I think you are asking for trouble. Plenty of other fish in the sea.

xfman · Posted: Thu May 03, 2007 11:45 pm Post subject:

Your putting your head in the railroad man.

Don't risk your business for a girl. The probability of you and her finishing a relationship and still want to see each other is .1 %

"Don't risk your job for a ONS"

osiris · Posted: Fri May 04, 2007 5:51 pm Post subject:

Whoa im gonna agree, dont go for this one, you can easily mess up your business. If you absolutely need something outta her just become a friend and meet her friends IF anything.

MrSmooth · Posted: Sat May 05, 2007 7:53 pm Post subject: Update

Thanks for the reply guys. I will definitely back up on this one. I will just be her friend for now. I have to admit it is so hard though. I had already run a couple of patterns on her before posting, and I saw her yesterday, and she was all over me. sucks, but I think you guys are right.
Thanks Again.
Mr. Smooth

zero · Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 11:42 am Post subject: Don't be too hasty to walk away.

I have to admit that I agree with the other one's on this one.
You are walking a tightrope. Logically it can only end badly.

But have you thought of this?

Don't back off!! And don't bang her!!!
What I mean to say is, run routines, and be her friend at the same time. Don't go for the kill just use her as practice, try every new trick you learn on her.

Now, once again people on this forum seem to disagree with me on a lot of things, so first let me say that I am a plower, and kamikazee. This is only my opinion, think about it before you do it. You can't play hot and cold here. Once you have her hooked you can't make any move, because then it could end very bad.

What should you try to accomplish by doing this?

1. Develop a strong friendship.
2. Get her madly interested in you.
3. Go out with her and meet her friends.
4. Have her put in good words to all her friends.
5. Sleep with her friends.

Now, there is one, ONLY ONE, possibility that this could go very very good for you. She could become so interested in you and how you make all her friends feel so good, that she loses interest in her man, and goes ALL OUT FOR YOU. At that point, you would need to make a LTR out of it.
You need to decide if LTR is what you want, if you are sure, we can do this, step by step, and I don't see it as a bad thing. If not then I agree with my fellow PUA's plenty of other fish in the sea.

Once again, I am the rare one who screams FUCK IT and runs head long into it. Especially for a 10, I think 10's (with personality to match) are worth it. But remember this COULD go VERY badly. So be carefull what you wish for.

My point is, don't be scared away just yet, take it one day at a time, see how many IOI's you can get.

Slipfinger · Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2007 9:05 pm Post subject:

She's good looking and she knows it! Haha she's flirting with you but why?

Hum could it be the reason she wants her buety confirmed..and someway I get the idea thats exactly what your doing..confirming it to her!

So all in all what your doing is something she enjoys..but would she sleep with you doubtfull why should she? she gets fucked at home by some guy but hey girls still need to feel pretty dont they? so who is better to use then some guy drooling over her?

SF

Monkey · Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 3:51 am Post subject:

You needn't give up your business for the girl (which is the real issue; depending upon your moral stance, the boyfriend may not be). It's a stupid risk for a million reasons (sexual harassment suits being the least of them), but it's possible.

Make sure she knows where you're coming from. This is not something that can develop into a long-term thing. It's a torrid three-night (or what-have-you) affair, and that'll be the end of that. You don't want to say it like that, obviously, but you need to get that message across. SOI, relate-reward as normal, and hard qualify.

I would really suggest staying away from it, though.

Krylon · Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 5:00 am Post subject:

I agree with slip and monkey.

Never mix business with pleasure.

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