Here ya guys go.


1. Signal she is attracted to you when you first enter a room.
-She will quickly sit up or stand straighter( perks up with her shoulders up and breasts out)
-She will strike an attractive pose to you for attention.

2. Signal with her eyes from across the room.
-She will do a peekaboo(sometimes with the person blocking her view, drink, menu.. ect)
-her eyes will look down and away when you make eye contact but will look back again within 45 seconds.
-she will give you a repeated sidelong glance even if she is conversing or dancing with someone else.

3. Signal with her body to let you know she is attracted to you.
-She will pull her blouse or dress aside to incite you or allow a strap to fall
-she will let one of her shoes to dangle on her foot, usually showing her sole.
-she will take a pose with one arm up behind her head exposing her underarm.
-she will allow her leg to show, sometime allowing her skirt up to make you notice.

4. Signals involving encroaching distance to show she would like more intimacy with you.
-she will stand or sit closer than normal, sometimes very subtle.
-she will put an object or perhaps a part of her body(hand,arm, leg) in you personal space
-she will innocently touch your hand or arm in order to signal you
-she will lean into your personal space, usually in conversation. This signals shows she likes what you are saying

5. Signals with her hands that show you excite her.
-she will instinctively tug or twist an earing or necklace, sometimes calling attention to her cleavage or neck.
-If you build enough comfort with her or you continue to attract her during conversation she will put her hand close to her face with her palm up facing you.
-she will instinctively pull her hair aside to show her neck to you.
-she will primp herself in hope to get more attention from you(more lipstick or perfume after a bathroom break... ect)
-she will instinctively play with her hair, whether by slight primp, twisting caressing or toss aside
-she will pet or caress herself(means she wished it was you caressing her)

6. Signals she is enjoying your company.
-She will scrunch her shoulders
-she will act more silly than normal
-she will copy your movements to show she is on the same wavelength with you

7. Signals a girl with use when she is intoxicated, very turned on, or trying extra hard for your attention.
-she will seductively lick her lips
-she will rim her glass, notice which finger(middle)
-she will suck on a swizzle stick or a straw, even if her glass is empty.



This should help as you transition, go on during day two's, give you an idea which level you are at in terms of attraction and comfort. You get the idea. Keep in mind younger women may show more instinctive signals while more experienced woman may understand what she does instinctively and purposely do it in order to build attraction with you.

It seems to me that most of this is common sense. They are indeed all IOI's that you should look out for, but this list is pretty common knowledge to most of the users on this forum.

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Yep, i agree, there is alot of threads like this. Still, it might catch a few pair of eyes that didn't know about this until now.
A for effort.

maybe basic but still good stuff and useful, thanks

Are there girls that do these IOIs naturally. What i mean by that is, are there girls out in the world that do this behaviour not to attract attention in seductive/ intimate ways but just because its who they are?

My friend (LJBF zone, well actually i'm really confused with her). Last few months i've kino'd to death and she has been really compliant. But i dont to make an agressive move til im certain... or maybe i should, i dont know. She does alot of these IOIs but im pretty sure she does it to everyone else aswell.

The contents of this post were well organized and these topics cant be mentioned enough as there are constantly people asking what IOI's are.

Good post.

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lol showing underarm...didn't realize we were in a Japanese tea house.

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Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

These are unconscious signals that girls send out. Sometimes they are conscious, but much more rarely.

If a girl is giving you IOIs, you need to make a move, if you consider that aggressive, then yeah, you need to be a bit aggressive, because women are brought up expecting men to make the move and 99% of the time they won't make it first. This is the entire purpose behind why we watch for IOIs.

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I know of these body language signals from reading but I never notice girls giving these signals to any guy who enters a room. Maybe on tv but I hardly ever seen it around here. Most of the girls are pre-occupied with their girl friends at the table or watching themselves dance in a mirror. The don't even appear interested in guys. Pennsylvania girls are weird.

What I want to know is how I can walk into a room and be noticed? That's a good question, isn't it?

You forgot one IOI based on body language, bud.

If a woman's lower body is turned towards you while they're sitting (i.e. her legs are towards you while she's at the bar talking to her friend) then that's a sign of interest.

Girls aren't normally instantly attracted to guys based on looks alone. It's not that there aren't some sexy dudes out there, but if you aren't one of them, it's hard to get IOI's instantly. Men are built to <a href="http://www.attractwomen.org">attract women</a> over a time lapse. Looks aren't usually what puts women head over heels for men. If it were plenty of men would be in deep trouble

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um wtf?! why does it matter which finger she rims her glass with? lol...