Attraction

Avonasac · Posted: Mon Oct 30, 2006 11:55 pm Post subject: Attraction

does anyone know how to switch all of the woman attraction swict on, such as pre-selection switch, leader of the group switch ect...

how many switch are there?

xfman · Posted: Tue Oct 31, 2006 2:22 am Post subject:

I don't know how many (maybe 8 , not sure , but anyway does't matter how many)

But this switches can be turned on with an Alpha Male behavior

If you want me to explain this more send me a PM and I will psot a longer explanation, feel free to ask.

Irony · Posted: Tue Oct 31, 2006 3:09 am Post subject:

One of my favorite ways is story telling with DHV spikes- for example, my exgirlfriend's dad hooked me up with my career.

So I tie that into a story which spikes pre-selection- I then might add it's allowed me to hook some of my friends with jobs since we help eachother out anyway we can (leader of men/takes care of friends and family/belongs to a tribe)

The more subtle you make these spikes the more genuine they come off. Story telling is a dynamite skill to have since the one who talks the most is the most dominant, but remember to be encourage interaction.

DjSuperStaR · Posted: Tue Oct 31, 2006 5:45 am Post subject:

here are some from styles

1. You must show her that you're safe. Trust is an important issue for most women. This must be demonstrated. So switch #1: in order to proceed, you need SAFETY and TRUST.

2. You must show her that you have either ambition, motivation, or job/financial security. In other words, you must have a life and goals. So switch #2 is demonstrating to her that you have STABILITY and AMBITION. You don't have to be successful, you just have to show the potential to be successful (unless you're in your 30s, at which point you should have achieved something).

3. You must show her that you're different than the other guys, that you are not generic or boring, that she can learn something from you or grow with you, that you have a sense of adventure or creativity or spirituality. So switch #3 is showing her that you HAVE SOMETHING TO OFFER, even if you don't give it to her in the moment. This is where DHVs are useful.

4. You must be the PRIZE of the room. She wants a guy others will envy her for, that she can brag about to her friends. This is where social proof comes in, where story-telling comes in. It's also where alpha qualities come in, cocky/funny, and not supplicating. So switch #4 is demonstrating all of the many qualities of CONFIDENCE, LEADERSHIP, AUTHORITY, and POPULARITY

5. It's a big world and we all feel alone in it, so if you can demonstrate that you UNDERSTAND her and where she comes from, she will feel chemistry. This can largely be done through demonstrating either cultural, mental, emotional, world view, humor, or life/background commonalities. The more obscure and rare a trait that you connect on, the more chemistry you create. So Switch #5 is demonstrating COMMONALITIES in order to trigger CHEMISTRY.

6. You need an aura of depth and mystery. You must maybe show a vulnerable or wounded side of yourself, you must not give away everything for free, you must be a puzzle she wants to figure out and maybe even have a wound she can heal. Switch #6 then is hooking her with your DEPTH and MYSTERY.

7. You must show her that you are NOT horny, but sexual. This is where social proof comes in too, also demonstrating an understanding of her world (liking her for who SHE is). So switch #7 is demonstrating your own LACK OF DESPERATION while showing her that you RECOGNIZE SOMETHING SPECIAL IN HER THAT ATTRACTS YOU TO HER. This is where QUALIFYING is useful, in other words demonstrating that you like her for who she is--even if you are a player.

and here are some of mines
1 protector of loved ones; being a teacher

2 high value, lots of social proof

3 pre-selection by women; "lipstick kiss on cheek"; surrounded by lots of hot chicks

4 supporter and protector of those close to you

5 being not needy; being unaffected

6 social intelligence; manners

7 negging her; dhv

8 having a strong super alpha frame

9 being intresting and fun

10 having humor and other emtional stimulation

11 being socially in demand; where other people are seeking your attention and your validation

ok now when youre flipping these attraction switches dont make it obvious; dont brag; like saying "yeah im rich and i date alot of hot women" it would look like you were trying to impress her and trying to impress people is low value behaviour; never try to impress anyone
instead you just hint at it by letting it drop into your conversations "my car broke down earlier and luckily; my ex-fiancee just got out of her modeling shoot (pre-selection) and seen me and gave me a ride here" you get the idea

you'll know if youve flipped any switches once you start getting IOIs; now move into a3 and start qualifying

xfman · Posted: Tue Oct 31, 2006 9:26 pm Post subject:

Thanks Superstar , I was about to post them down , because someone asked me , but anyway , about your last paragraph ....

The best way to demostrate and trigger all this switches is Some social proof and of course our powerful DHV or story telling.

At least for me the best way to create attraction is saying some funny DHV story about my friends (girls) and some funny stuff.

Avonasac · Posted: Wed Nov 01, 2006 1:05 am Post subject:

thanks guy

the reason why i need to flip all the attraction switch at once is because i want to try an experiment with speed dating. I only have about 2 minute to flip all the attraction switch of as many women as possible. I need the quickest way to do this.

i need help big time Mr. Green

HELP HELP HELP

xfman · Posted: Wed Nov 01, 2006 2:37 am Post subject:

Okay the best way to do the Speed Seduction method is , to have a lot of social proof (if you can have 2 girls with you as a pivot) look nice and use some NLP (make her feel that she knows you from ever.)

You can open with some funny statement introduce yourself ask a question , then run a DHV story and do NLP.

This are my two cents about speed seduction.

And the question How to turn all the switches on , there are some keys used by PUA.

First of all is your Inner Game - If you feel handsome, confident , etc... your going to transmit that.

Second Alpha Male caracteristics- Body language express more than words , slow paused talk with a full fo bass voice can make a girl wet.

Third DHV story- You can transmit all the characteristics you have to a girl in just 5 minutes.

Last- The use of NLP: By using some Quick NLP you can make a girl think she is special and she is the one for you, and that she needs to be with you, etc...

This is just my way of using fast seduction.... (if you want to know more of this kinds of FS send me a PM.)

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