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Leto_Atreides
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 Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 8:41 pm Post subject: Attracting my girlfriend once again |
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My girlfriend who I was really fond of, agreed not to see me for a while. This has happened mutually, because our attraction was suddenly gone due to a small fight.
I do think I have a reasonable chance to get back with her again (she was in love with me), however I'm not sure on how to attract her again...
Basically I am thinking about giving her the good feeling again that she had when she was around me and showing some indifference towards her.
I would welcome any pointers  |
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shoofy
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| Well listen man a great teacher for pickup David D. says that attraction is not a choice. My personal recommendation is maybe stay in touch with her but act like you don’t want her anymore showing indifference. Because if you’re no longer fill that emotional gap she will feel this. Mystery Calls this the Freeze out method. Then you need to DHV by getting women around you that are attracted to you, they need to be HB’s! This will not only show that you’re eligible but she will lose you if she doesn’t make a move. Which will trigger her jealousy and should start making her want you. If all else fails my friend find a new girl! There are many out there that’s why many of us men have been learning the art of pickup. Good luck hope this helps. |
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Strategic.0n3
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| Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 7:34 am Post subject: Freeze out method |
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that seriously works...
good call |
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Leto_Atreides
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I'll let you know when I succeed  |
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shoofy
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Thats the right attitude!  |
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struct
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its best to move on.
If she lost interest, its nearly impossible to get her interest level back up to where it needs to be. She will always remember the fight and have some sort of resentment, just move on.
I know it sucks, been there done that, but time heals and so do other women. |
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Leto_Atreides
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| Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:34 pm Post subject: the update |
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So it has been a while since I started this thread. And the only time I've seen her was this week.
She was with her friend, I was with my friends. Upon seeing her I realised that I'd have to DHV myself. I did this with all possibilities that I had at that time. I made sure that I was dominant in conversations and on top of that I used my wittyness.
She and her friend came to us, and I ignored them in order for them to see that they are not very important to me.
I would avoid approaching her, but if the moment arrives I will use plenty of humor and make her work for my attention.
Any waterproof openers I could use in this situation are welcome |
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fujack103
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Hi, i dont know what help i can be but i found that when you just say "ok" and walk away from a break up with no remorse the shock horror response you get is amazing i had this one girl hanging for a year after she brock up with me! Remember tho if you can walk away leaving them feeling its their fault its good cos i know this plays like f*ck with their heads, women like feeling their in control and never in the wrong. oh and also if she does or did love you.... i use that word loosly! she wont disappear from your life my ex from 9 yrs ago has to contact me once a year lol which i take good advantage of!
Good luck and what she dont know about wont hurt so use you time wisely!!! |
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DevVvo
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What i did was a giant freeze out.
I just stopped talking to her, didn't completely avoid her so she still saw me but looked away when she looked, interupted and walked away if she tried to talk. made it very very aquard when she was around.
She was thinking about me all the time (she told me)
Then one night we were at the same place, we were drunk, and she just cracked and started pouring out to me.
We hooked up.
We got back together.
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